When the night arrives and you have assisted your little ones with getting pajamas on, brushing teeth , doing some bedtime reading and a kissing them goodnight....Start getting comfortable with locking your bedroom door. This has been my experience. I do not feel free to be sexual with the door open or even unlocked. I feel as thou I have to be super still, quite, and I am always looking at the door waiting for this little person to be standing there. I am not able to enjoy being intimate with my spouse under these condition. I love the connection being created but the relaxed enjoyment is gone.
I feel comfortable waiting about a half hour and then I quietly shut and lock the bedroom door. If the kids need something, don't worry they will not be afraid to knock or scream. Then you can respond properly and all is great. Get comfortable sharing intimate, sexual moments with your spouse when the kids are home. Turn on some music for background noise if you feel uncomfortable with pure silence. Our children are going to be around for many years and our sexual life with suffer if we can not move past the ability to feel comfortable locking
our bedroom door. Enjoy passion and seduction in the bedroom. Enjoy feeling free and expressive. Enjoy your spouse...with the door locked!!!