Best friends and lovers...WOW!

When we fall in love and decide to commit your lives to
one another, we are committing to not only being together forever but also we are committing that we will be best friends forever. As a husband and wife it is easy to fall into a rut of disconnection and despair. To have an amazing sexual connection with one another...friendship is a must. It is easy to feel as thou you require a best friend of the same gender BUT if you can come to a point where your husband or wife is your best friend then you will have a deep connection that will support you in the bedroom. I know at times I look outwards for support and understanding. I feel as thou I am missing something in my life because I do not have a go to girl that understands me and my emotions. In these moments I realize I have the most amazing, understanding, supportive person right by my side but I at times I 
can by into societies picture of what a best friend is. My best friend is
my husband. He knows everything about me. He understands me in a way that no other person can. He is my everything. He is there anytime I require support with all his love and all his friendship. We can talk for hours, we can laugh together, I can cry and he feels my pain. He supports me in the perfect way.
I suggest that we start looking inward and first love ourselves unconditionally but also allow our spouse to be our best friend. In marriage we have a built in best friend. It comes with the package if we open up and allow it to. We are on the same team and we have similar goals and similar interests. Remember why you married this man. Remember all the fun times and cherished moments that brought you both together. Let your guard down and open up to your spouse. You will feel connected, loved, supported and complete. Friendship is so amazing and it is even more amazing when that best friend is your partner in life. The one you will forever love, your kindred spirit, your spouse, your lover, your best
friend!

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