Love , Sex and Magic!!
Justin Timberlake and Ciara had a fun time creating a
song with these 3 wonderful words.
I love this song. I feel power in these 3 words. In marriage there is so much love. Love for all the experiences we have been through as a couple. Love that has been created when you have children. Love for all the laughter that you
have had together. Love for all the sadness that you have shared. Love for all the growth that has taken place in your marriage. Love for all the days you have
spent together. Love is beautiful and connects us on the most intimate and powerful of levels.
Sex is amazing and can also be frustrating at times as
well. Sex is being vulnerable. Sex is being guarded. Sex is being open. Sex is
being closed. Sex is sharing yourself. Sex is withholding yourself. Sex is being
confident. Sex is being insecure. Sex is being peaceful. Sex is being angry.
Sex is liberating or sex can make your feel like you should hide in a box.
We all know that love is beautiful, amazing and the
greatest gift we can experience. There is no negative when it comes to love. It
is the best of everything and does not expect anything in return. Love is always
present and we do not have to question its beliefs or motives. Love just is.
Love is the greatest power of all.
We all know that sex can be beautiful and the greatest
gift as well. With sex we get to create strong beliefs of pleasure and have
positive experiences in our bodies. Sex is not good or bad it just is. Sex is
what we choose it to be. Sex is an amazing energetic connection in the physical
body. Sex is the ability to get lost in your reality. Sex is absolutely
wonderful and is also the greatest gift.
When we connect the two...LOVE and SEX then MAGIC can
happen. Magic is that moment in time where you feel like there is nobody else
on earth except you and your spouse. Magic is that moment when all thoughts
stop and you are fully present with love while you are having sex. Magic is the
moment where you can actually feel loved while having sex. Magic is created
when two human beings fall in love, have a life together, and create a master
piece in the bedroom. A masterpiece that takes time and dedication but when
It is Friday night. You have spent the day getting your hair done,
have freshly painted fingernails and your skin is a smooth as you can ever remember it being. You have picked out a sexy black number to surprise the one that you so long to be with. You have a romantic candle light dinner and share a wonderful glass of wine sitting by the
fireplace. You slowly move closer to one another. You reach out to softly caress
and kiss him. He kisses you back. Then he takes those passionate kisses and
starts focusing on only your boobs and your vagina. You are wishing the caresses
and the kisses would last so much longer.
If he only knew what you like in bed. If he only know that you longed for a
passionate massage with little flirtatious touches. If he only knew that you
love it when you rubs his hands up and down your luscious legs. If he only knew
that you want to kiss every part of his body because it gives you so much
pleasure to please him. If he only knew that you have a black leather number in
the closet that you have been dying to wear for him but have not found the
courage. If he only knew that you like sex when it is slow and soft or maybe you
like it hard and rough. If he only knew all this he could be the lover of your
WHY DOES HE NOT KNOW?
As woman we have the right to complete sexual satisfaction. It is ok
and completely safe to be open and share with your man what you like and
what you would like more of. When he is kissing you and you are enjoying
this passionate time ...tell him. Say something like " I love when you
kiss me slowly and gently it makes me feel like you love every part of me". When
you want your man to spend more time caressing and discovering your body...tell
him. Say something like this " I love it when you spend time touching, kissing
and exploring every inch of my body it makes me feel as thou you are wanting to
please me in more ways then just orgasm". When you want a sensual
massage...tell him. Say something like " I would love a sensual massage and
you can not touch my boobs or vagina until 10 minutes has elapsed". Men
want to be great lovers. Our man wants to please us in bed. Society has
taught men that there is just the jack hammer method and that
may be all they know. If you open up and share you may discover that your man is
so eager to please you and as long as you share what you like and want more of
with feminine power and DO NOT crush his EGO in the process then you will have a
lover that is hand stamped and made personally for your pleasure.
Sex is amazing and should be something that we are not afraid of. Sex is
an adult playground. A playground that is safe to share your thoughts, feelings
and inner most desires. Woman it is your God given right to be sexually
satisfied. We women are the creators, what we focus on the whole world will focus
on. When we are happy, sexual beings the whole world benefits.
My name is Cameo .I have been married for 19 years and with my husband for 20.5 years. I know that the sexual connection in a marriage can create strength and happiness and I also know the lack of a sexual connection can leave you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Lets get real open and become sexually satisfied in our marriages!