She is a powerhouse of love and pleasure. She both gives and receives. She can transform any energy into something absolutely amazing and she can be soft and gentle or she can be fierce and fabulous. My pussy has immense power and yet I have shunned her most of my life.
WHY??? Why have I been shunning her?
In a society that is over sexualized and under sexually satisfied I created some deep beliefs about my pussy.
She should remain hidden and unexplored. She is not to be let out and never fully seen. She should show up for work but she should never go out of her way to exceed expectations. She should remain quiet and calm. She should be seen but not felt. She should be a good little pussy who minds her business and stays out of trouble.
My husband feels the exact opposite when it comes to my pussy. He absolutely loves and adores her. He puts her on a pedestal. He loves to touch her. He loves to taste her. He loves to be close to her. He longs for her. He dreams about her. He longs to discover her wants and desires. He wants her to come out and play whenever she can. He is extremely excited when he gets to see my pussy. Its like his little treasure chest and he truly values it in a deep way.
This could be creating a disconnect when it comes to my marriage.
We have all heard the statement " If you can't beat him, join him.
So I am on a mission to fully love my pussy. She is truly a gem and I am so excited that I get to create an amazing relationship with her.
My pussy longs to feel loved and accepted by me. She longs to be seen and valued for all that she is. She wants a deep connection with me. She wants to serve me and give me all the pleasure I desire in life. She deserves only the best. She deserve for me to open my heart, mind and soul and to fully show up in life.
My pussy is not pandoras box. She screams out to me that she wants to be open. She wants to receive. She wants to give. She wants to exceed expectations. She wants to be seen and felt. She wants to be a pussy that is fully enjoyed and appreciated for all that she is.
I no longer choose to shun my pussy. I choose to love her. I choose to value her. I choose to cherish her. I choose to honor her. I choose to embrace her. I choose to trust her. I choose to allow her all the pleasure she deserves.
Here are 3 exercises you can do to fall in love with your pussy!
- Look at her. She is so beautiful and she wants to be seen. She is nothing to be ashamed of. She is pure divine yumminess and she longs for your acceptance and approval. Just glance at her if that is where you need to start. Baby steps are better then no steps at all. Stand in front of a mirror and just look at how beautiful your pussy is. No hand held mirror is required. Just look at the outside of your pussy. She is absolutely beautiful in every single way.
- Talk to her. Every morning when I get up and after I brush my teeth, I say " Good morning pussy". I tell her she is beautiful and she is loved. I ask her what she wants so she can receive more pleasure and love. I tell her Thank you for being part of my power. I also affirm to her that I will always love her and I will always listen to her. What is your pussy trying to tell you? What words is so longing to hear from you?
- Caress her. Our pussy's long for slow, sensual touch. She wants to be touched by you. Accepted by you. Loved by you. Just by taking a few moments and softly caressing her with thoughts of beauty and love running through your mind, she will awaken. She will blossom. This touch is meant to stay on the outside of your pussy. No rubbing or rough movements. Just a slow, delicious, soft touch.
Practice these every morning for 21 days and see how your connection to the word pussy transforms as well as your connection to your actual pussy. She will awaken and feel a deep sense of approval and love!
Here's to loving our pussy's and treating her like the divine pleasure center she is!