In society we have been taught that sex should look good instead of feel good. We are sexual beings and in the process of being sexual beings we have heard and seen many things that state sex looks like this. When we are feeling that the sex we are having does not match up to that image, we create a disconnect with our sexual self. Sex does not look a certain way, sex is an amazing feeling and we get to overcome the attachments that we have created when it comes to the look of sex and start fully embracing the FEELINGS of sex. 

When we are making love to our husbands who cares what it looks like. It is the feeling that is the most important part of sexually connecting. When we are sexual with our spouse and it feels good then we feel good. We feel happy and this happiness carries over into every part of our lives. We have a glow and a confidence about us. We are excited and fulfilled! Sex creates amazing emotions. Embrace the feelings of sex and stop focusing on the look of sex. When we embrace the feelings of sex it is easier for us to look and feel sexier. When we are sexual in our marriage on a consistent basis then the sexual happiness builds inside of us and we automatically feel and look sexier. By allowing yourself to embrace the feelings of sex you allow yourself and your spouse to build more and more positive feelings that are attached to your sexual energy. You both will be happier, look healthier, feel more connected, and both of you will be excited to lay next to each other every night as you will become each others pleasure centers. 

Dedicate yourself to your sexual happiness and fulfillment inside your marriage. Sex is something that is liberating, exciting, relaxing, passionate, sensual and erotic. Sex can also be something that can be challenging and difficult. We get to decide how badly we want an amazing sex life and work through the challenges we face so we can become sexually satisfied in our marriage. When we get to have sex with the same person for years we can either allow this to become boring or we can choose to create something different and allow this sex to become the BEST sex ever. I know what one I am choosing and with that choice comes excitement, passion and my own sexual playground of fun with my husband. We deserve to be sexually satisfied . Our husbands deserve to be sexually satisfied. We deserve to fully embrace the feelings of sex and create fun and excitement on a daily basis. Sexual energy builds. The more sexual you are in your marriage the more you will absolutely love and devour each other every night...or at least every other night!

 

Masturbation is a natural part of human sexuality! Orgasms help decrease stress, increase genital blood flow, and awakens a better sexual response! Masturbation is a reliable path to fulfillment as well as educating yourself about your body and what it likes and what it does not like.  For women masturbation can be a great discovery time for what type of movement is best suited for our sexual self. It is also a great time to caress our own bodies, slowly rubbing and touching our own self with love and appreciation is an amazing concept to bring into your sexual energy. If we are always feeling ashamed and bad about ourselves and focusing on only the things we don't like about our bodies then it is really difficult to give ourselves to our lover and enjoy the creation process of sex! My suggestion would be if you do not feel comfortable touching, rubbing and exploring your vagina then at least dedicate some time to rubbing, touching and caressing your body. Focus on your amazing neck line, your beautiful shoulders, the curves of your thighs and the sway in your back. Get comfortable touching your own body. You will immediately start feeling sexy and you will share this sexiness with your husband.

For men masturbation can relieve built up tension as well as build stamina for longer love making sessions. Male masturbation is talked about often and usually expected in a sexual relationship. We have all heard 100's of times about male masturbation and how it is something they all do! Become comfortable talking about masturbation with your spouse and show her the things you like and don't like. You know what your penis needs so share all those amazing sexrets with your wife!

Masturbation is a personal choice . You can choose to never touch yourself or to touch yourself on a daily basis...BUT you choose. Do not allow others thoughts and fears to control you. Ask yourself if masturbation is right for you and if the answer is YES then start enjoying your sexuality. Do not be ashamed of it. Harness its power and awaken your sexual, self loving side. If the answer is NO, then take some steps to start appreciating the beauty your body has and does offer. Speak positive words and try to lightly caress your legs, arms and neckline. This will also awaken your sexual energy!

Sex binds and bonds us in a way that is so powerful, so wonderful and so pleasurable. A husband and wife that has a great sexual connection and can share their sexual self freely and openly is a couple that has freedom in the bedroom to discover, explore and satisfy each other or watch while each of you satisfies yourselves! Explore in the bedroom...it is super FUN!