Men have only two emotions~ hungry and horny!
If you see him without an erection, make him a sandwich!
Since
the beginning of time men have been attracted to women through their beauty. The
healthier and more vibrant a woman looks the more a man would be drawn to her.
In his mind she has the ability to carry a child and allow his genes to pass on.
Women on the other hand are attracted to men through resources. The house they
can provide, the income they can provide, the protection they can provide and
the security they can provide. This is why you see an extremely attractive young
lady with a man counterpart that looks like he may be half way in the grave
already. She is attracted to his resources not his body! You would never see a
young woman with a old man that is living in a retirement community and barely
scraping by with the check that rolls in every month from the social security
department.
So
if men are visually stimulated, what are you actively doing to stimulate your
husband. I am not saying that you have to be a knockout. I am saying that
confidence and a desire to show your husband all your curves and beauty is a
starting point to create an amazing sexual connection. As a woman you have the
peacock like feathers, embrace them and show your mate your sexuality and your
sensuality, show him your soft girly side! How do you do this... you are asking?
In the morning while you are showering notice all the beauty your body has to
offer. Notice the line of your neck, the softness of your breast, the ampleness
of your booty and the beauty of your legs. Embrace your beauty in a positive
healthy way. Do not allow yourself to go to a negative place as this closes off
any sexual energy that is being drawn to you. Confidence is key here. We all
have body parts that we absolutely love and we get to use these parts to entice
our husbands.
Another
way we can visually stimulate our husband is to activate our sexual diva in the
bedroom. I am talking about being able to
tap into your seductive self. Do not turn off the lights and jump
underneath the covers. Get some dim lighting so your husband can see all your
beautiful curves as well as your being able to feel confident at the same time.
Seduce your husband. As women we love foreplay. Create ways all throughout the
day to engage in small acts of foreplay. When you are in the bedroom embrace
your inner sexual self and play with the act of sex. Sex is not just laying down
and letting him slide his penis inside you. Sex is a playful way for you to turn
your man on as well as a time for him to pleasure you. When we are sexually
confident, your marriage will flourish. Remember men are visually stimulated and
he wants to see all of you...naked and confident. He will not notice the flaws
you think you have, he will notice that fact that you are pleasing him with your
nakedness and your ability and desire to seduce him.
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