Who cares what Sex looks like?

In society we have been taught that sex should look good instead of feel good. We are sexual beings and in the process of being sexual beings we have heard and seen many things that state sex looks like this. When we are feeling that the sex we are having does not match up to that image, we create a disconnect with our sexual self. Sex does not look a certain way, sex is an amazing feeling and we get to overcome the attachments that we have created when it comes to the look of sex and start fully embracing the FEELINGS of sex. 

When we are making love to our husbands who cares what it looks like. It is the feeling that is the most important part of sexually connecting. When we are sexual with our spouse and it feels good then we feel good. We feel happy and this happiness carries over into every part of our lives. We have a glow and a confidence about us. We are excited and fulfilled! Sex creates amazing emotions. Embrace the feelings of sex and stop focusing on the look of sex. When we embrace the feelings of sex it is easier for us to look and feel sexier. When we are sexual in our marriage on a consistent basis then the sexual happiness builds inside of us and we automatically feel and look sexier. By allowing yourself to embrace the feelings of sex you allow yourself and your spouse to build more and more positive feelings that are attached to your sexual energy. You both will be happier, look healthier, feel more connected, and both of you will be excited to lay next to each other every night as you will become each others pleasure centers. 

Dedicate yourself to your sexual happiness and fulfillment inside your marriage. Sex is something that is liberating, exciting, relaxing, passionate, sensual and erotic. Sex can also be something that can be challenging and difficult. We get to decide how badly we want an amazing sex life and work through the challenges we face so we can become sexually satisfied in our marriage. When we get to have sex with the same person for years we can either allow this to become boring or we can choose to create something different and allow this sex to become the BEST sex ever. I know what one I am choosing and with that choice comes excitement, passion and my own sexual playground of fun with my husband. We deserve to be sexually satisfied . Our husbands deserve to be sexually satisfied. We deserve to fully embrace the feelings of sex and create fun and excitement on a daily basis. Sexual energy builds. The more sexual you are in your marriage the more you will absolutely love and devour each other every night...or at least every other night!

 

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