As a woman of the 21st century we are encouraged to explore, expand and empower ourselves. We are in the midst of the self empowerment era and we get to experience so many ways to fully awaken to our feminine power. We are taught that gratitude is the most amazing tool in this world when it comes to loving our life. We are taught that positive focus will allow us to expand and create a more positive amazing life. We are learning that we are the creators of our own reality and that we have to power to experience what we want to experience in our world. We are hearing more and more about the amazingness of self love and how self love can completely shift our worlds inside and out. We are hearing that affirmations can completely break down walls and build new ones that will allow us to fully flourish in our femininity.
I want to ask if you have every thought about using these tools to have a better connection with your vagina and with your sexual energy?
Lets take a moment and really dig into how these amazing empowerment tools can assist us in creating a deeper more fulfilling connection with our vagina and our sexual energy.
1. Be grateful for your vagina. There is nothing more empowering as a sexual woman to look in the mirror and say " Thank you vagina for all the pleasure you give me". Thank you vagina for being a receiver of the masculine and a giver of the feminine". Thank you vagina for all the beauty you offer.
Be grateful for the ability to menstruate. When you are crampy and not filling the sexiest say to yourself " Thank you for allowing me to be a woman. Thank you for giving my body the ability to procreate. Thank you for the beauty of menstruation. Thank you for allowing me to remember on a monthly basis how beautiful this gift is.
2. Think positive thoughts when it comes to your vagina. When we have a positive connection with our vagina we have a positive feeling deep inside. This positive energy comes through us in the most beautiful way. Our vagina is absolutely positively amazing. Our vagina is our gift to be able to receive. Our vagina is the essence of our feminine nature. Love your vagina. Speak and think positive thoughts about your vagina. When we have a positive relationship with our vagina we will have a positive relationship in the bedroom with our man. Love your vagina.
3. We are the creators of our own sexuality. We get to decide how we want to experience our sexual self. Decide to experience her in the most delicious way. You deserve to fully embrace your sexual self. Create your sexual world the way you want it to be. Picture how you would be the most satisfied when it comes to your sexual self and create that. Create the vision that comes to your mind. If you want dominance in your sexual life then create it and allow it to be. If you want spirituality in your sexual life then create it and allow it to be. If you want to be able to relax and be vulnerable then create that and allow it to be. Whatever and however you want your sexual self to be expressed you have the ability to determine, decide, commit and allow. Create what you deserve.
4. Affirmations. Oh how we have all heard about the power of positive affirmations. Guess what. We can use these to create a better more fulfilling sexual energy. Always us I AM...these are two of the most powerful words!
I AM allowing myself to relax into sex
I AM receiving the love that I deserve
I AM giving love easily and effortlessly
I AM comfortable with my naked self
I AM playful and excited inside the bedroom
I AM open and committed to loving sex
I AM safe to express my wants and desires
I AM easily able to reach an orgasmic state
I AM connecting to my spouse in an amazing way
I AM confident with my ability to give and receive
I AM loving my vagina in every way
I AM loving my husbands penis in every way
I AM excited to be sexual with my spouse
I AM excited to co create in the bedroom
I AM able to surrender
I AM able to receive pleasure
I AM loving and thankful for my multiple orgasms( I am still working on this affirmation)
Commit to saying these affirmations 3 times a day and then focus on positive sexual feelings and thoughts. What we think about we bring about and this statement is true when it comes to sex as well. Think about what you want and bring it about as thou it is already true. You will find that your sexual energy has not been fully able to express itself due to the thoughts you have about yourself sexually. Think positive, love your vagina and know that you have the power to create the sex life of your dreams. Stop dreaming and start embracing your sexual power. You will be so thankful you did.