This has been an amazing week for my husband and I. The children have went to visit
Grandma and Grandpa for a whole week. I felt like this could be a quiet week
without the children and while I enjoy some quiet time I decided to tap into my
sexual power. I did some meditating, some reading about sex the title of the
book is..."The good girls guide to bad girls sex" and also watched an erotic
film. Normally I would never do the last one but I was getting a feeling that
this was the direction I was suppose to take. For me ...this was the best thing
I could have done. I used the erotic film not just for pleasure but to educate
myself. This lit a flame inside me that has been out for years. I felt excited
to share myself with my husband in new and exciting ways. We have experienced
things in the bedroom the last 4 days that we have never experienced in 12 years
of marriage. I feel more comfortable and confident stepping out of the
box....WAY OUT of the box then I ever have before.
I am not saying that you have to watch something that makes you feel
uncomfortable or read something that makes you feel dirty BUT I am saying do
something that turns your fire on and up. Do something that turns you and your
spouse on that is out of the norm. Do something in the bedroom that creates the
feeling of anticipation and excitement. Plan something that causes butterflies
in your stomach. Send your spouse a very descriptive plan of what you are going
to do to him...then DO IT! Tap into that erotic, sexual, sensual self that you
know is inside you somewhere. Find things that will awaken your hot, sexy,
sexual self. There are things for everyone that will ignite this flame and I
suggest you use tools that you feel connected with to assist yourself in growing
stronger sexually. Lets all take some time and step out of our box....either a
little out or WAY OUT. I promise you will be so excited you did. You will
discover a sexual charge that has been waiting to get tapped into!
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