My husband and I met 16 years ago today. We have had some amazing times and we have had some tragic times. We have experienced happiness, joy and excitement as well as experienced sadness, pain and tears. We have loved each other so deeply and we have hated each other so passionately. We have grown and expanded as well as put walls up and manned the tower. We have had nights of pleasure and passion and we have had nights of loneliness and despair. We have felt the euphoric feelings of love and we have felt the dark feelings of anger. We have seen each others light and we have seen each others darkness. Through this all we have learned a few things. Here they are!
Marriage is what we create it to be. Decide today to construct your marriage with all the beautiful things it deserves.
I absolutely love music. It has always been something that has truly moved me spiritually, emotionally and yes ...sexually. While I was working out this morning this song came on Pandora. As I listened to the lyrics I felt my yummy sensual energy. Music if we allow it to can really awaken our sexual energy. I have always loved listening to sexual music.
When I was younger I loved R & B. I enjoyed the smoothness of the sound with the under tone of seduction. I loved POP music in my teens as it allowed me to move my body in sexy ways and tap into my inner diva. I enjoyed country as it would awaken me to deep love and deep loss. I enjoyed hardcore rap as it activated my inner anger and my deep longing to be wanted by a man so badly. I loved naughty by nature and too short. Even now, I am 38 and I enjoy all the different varieties of music.
Music moves our souls. We can be moved to tears. We can be moved to happiness. We can be moved to cold chills. We can be moved to feel disgust. We can be moved to feel like dancing. We can be moved and tap into our sexual essence.
Music is so powerful. I suggest today to find music that activates, awakens and inspires your sexual soul.
Take some time and find some music that inspires you sexually. Not music that you feel is socially acceptable. I am talking about music that awakens that inner diva. That goddess inside. You know the girl I am talking about. We have all seen a woman move to music in such a sensual and erotic way and have secretly longed to be able to move like her.
This is the music I am talking about. The music that makes you feel like ...Oh yeah, I am a sexy , sensual , erotic and exotic feminine creature. I can move my body in a way that allows me to connect to who I am and transforms me into a work of art. The female body is a work of art and music can enhance the art. Music is yummy. Music is sexy. Music is sensual. Music can make us connect to parts of ourselves that we have shut down for years.
Now that you have found some sexy music add movement to it. Music and movement. What a beautiful combination. I am not suggesting that you become an exotic dancer but I am suggesting that you tap into that part of yourself. All of us women have the capability of moving our bodies in super delicious way.
Listen to sensual music and move slowly and seductively. I promise you will become aware of how beautiful you truly are. When we are married and we have children it is so easy to forget the power of the feminine essence. Tap back into her. You deserve it. The feminine essence of who you are as a woman wants to be embrace and empowered. You may feel funny at first but with some time and some consistent effort you will flourish and feel satisfied.
Here are some of my favorite yummy sexy songs
Sexy Can I by Ray J
Smack that by Akon
Dance with me by 112
I wanna love you by Akon... (I prefer the explicit version which says F@*k you instead of love!)
Porn star dancing by My darkest days
Touch my body by Mariah Carey
Dance like we are making love by Ciara
Here are just a few of my favorites. Some of my songs may be a bit over the top for you but find a few of your own and allow yourself to move slowly and seductively. I promise music and movement will awaken your feminine, sexual, sensual essence!
Have you ever wanted to get a Bikini wax?
Have you had thoughts and worries that you might not like the way your vulva looks?
Have you thought that maybe you would feel like a 10 year old girl again?
Have you wanted to try it but just didn't dare?
I am here to share my experience with this!
First of all European wax offers a complimentary wax for first time visitors. The bikini line is free but if you want the full frontal bikini or a Brazilian bikini wax you just pay the difference.
If you are shy at all then this will be an exciting experience for you. After you check in and meet your waxing specialist, the two of you go into a very well lite room. As the specialist walks over to her station to prepare she will ask you to take off your clothes from the waist down and lay on the table. So you are in a room, with a stranger, laying on a table, naked from the waist down, nervous and excited. The specialist then clarifies what you are wanting and walks you through the process of the waxing so you feel more relaxed and a bit more comfortable. Then she will ask you to put your legs into a butterfly position. If you felt a little shy before this will really get you out of your comfort zone. She will then apply this special wax. The wax will harden and then she will ask you to take a deep breathe and then pull it off quickly. There is pain involved but it dissipates quickly. When you are ripping the hair out by the roots it is going to be painful but when you are ripping the hair out all around your vulva you are hoping it will be worth it. The process only takes about 10- 15 minutes and it not to bad. The specialist are all very professional and really do a great job.
So now you are done and it is time to put your pants back on. When you arrive back home be prepared for your husband to be excited. He will be acting like a little kid at Christmas just dying to unwrap you so he can see your new shiny package.16 years together and I had butterflies. Doing something new in the sexual arena is so fun and it will increase the connection you and your husband have with one another.
Here are 5 reasons I love to have a waxed vulva!
I am not suggesting that you always keep her naked but I am suggesting that you try this, just once and see how you feel. You may love it and you may hate it but you will never know until you do it.
Sex and sexual energy is a must in marriage if you want to feel happy, satisfied and fulfilled. Doing new things will create newness inside the marriage.
Wax your vulva! You may love it!
My name is Cameo .I have been married for 19 years and with my husband for 20.5 years. I know that the sexual connection in a marriage can create strength and happiness and I also know the lack of a sexual connection can leave you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Lets get real open and become sexually satisfied in our marriages!