While I think feminism is beautiful and absolutely amazing I also feel like it is destroying the family unit. Marriage is so sacred and the woman was the one that really fueled this fire. The woman was the one who loved and nurtured, who cared for and tended to the children, who embraced her man with open arms and a longing heart when he arrived home after a long day at work. The woman was the centerpiece of the family. I am not talking about everything revolving around her. I am talking about everything being more beautiful because she was around. Her feminine energy, her softness, her lovingness, her alluring pull to everyone around her. The children were happier , the husband was cared for, the family unit was held together by this amazing, beautiful, awesome, feminine woman. Tap back into this energy. You don’t have to be perfect at everything just be very focused on keeping your marriage front and center. Your husband deserves to be loved, appreciated, accepted and cared for. Awaken your feminine energy. Express how loving you are, how passionate you are, how much you truly love this man. Your husband would slay dragons for you and the family and he does everyday. As women we have the power to shift our marriage to a more beautiful, peaceful, loving, exciting place. We have the power of the female energy. The energy that houses life. We have the soft, sensual, expanding, powerful, soulful feminine energy. Our men love this energy. They love to have it expressed. They love to receive it in thoughts, words and actions. Share your amazing feminine energy with your husband. Let him know how much you love him. How much you care for him. How much you are forever there for him. Stop focusing on the things that bother you about your mate and focus on all the love. All the power. All the enjoyment. Take time to realize all the amazing aspects of your husband. He is the masculine energy. The man of the family. The provider, the protector, the one who fights the battles and slays the dragons. He is the man. Show him how much you love him!
Jeff and I love watching a good movie together. We both feel called to find movies that speak more to our personal goals and dreams. A huge goal we have in our marriage is to have a great sexual connection. The kind of sexual connection that can be so beautiful and soul moving and it can also be so raw, hot and down right naughty! As we are on our mission to have the best sexual connection we have ventured into finding erotic movies. I am not talking about hardcore porn or even soft porn with no story line, although we have found a beautiful place for these two things in our marriage as well. I am talking about a movie with an amazing storyline, good actors and actresses as well as having erotic content. So far we have found a few in the gay and lesbian section of Netflixs. I find it fascinating the selection of erotic content in this section of Netflixs. Jeff and I are both extremely open and I have always found the female body to be so beautiful and sexy so we have been watching movies with lesbian relationships. WOW....we watched a movie last night that I thought was AMAZING. The movie is based around two women, who meet in Rome and spend an amazing night together. A night of laughter, sadness, discovery, pain, sexual healing, sexual exploration, friendship and so much more. I felt extreme emotion when we watched this movie. I felt the love that Jeff and I have shared in the bedroom as well as the pain Jeff and I have felt in the bedroom. I felt the tears and disconnect as well as the passion and pleasure. This movie was simply amazing and I am so glad that my husband and I are open enough to explore different avenues of our sexual expression. The two women are naked 95% of the movie and they have the most amazing, beautiful, sexual bodies. They share themselves in a very raw way. Seeking sexual pleasure. The sex scenes are very classy and created an emotion of want and desire without any emotions of guilt and shame. The movie also showed the duality of our sexual selves. The side that wants to be pleasured and satisfied versus the side that feel shameful and guilty for wanting the pleasure. This movie was by far one of the best movies I have seen when it comes to an erotic movie. The movie is called " Room in Rome". I would suggest this movie to anyone who is wanting to release the pain of feeling trapped inside who you are as a sexual being. I would suggest this movie to any woman who feels they are constantly comparing themselves to other women as during this movie you will process many emotions and either become comfortable with seeing another naked female body for its beauty and amazingness or you will shut the movie off because you are not ready to release the emotions that are keeping you trapped( or you don't enjoy lesbian sex and that's fine too)! I would suggest this movie to try something new in your marriage. It is a very sensual sexy movie that can really get the sexual energy flowing and activate the sexual goddess within. Becoming comfortable sharing a sexual experience with your spouse is down right out of this world amazing. I feel so connected to Jeff all the time but I really love the energy of that connection when it comes from a sexual experience. Watching a movie, a sexual glance, a soft sensual touch are just a few ways to create sexual energy. Energy expands so focus on expanding your sexual energy. Do something new, do something exciting, do something sexual. DO SOMETHING! We are either moving forward or backward there is no middle ground. We deserve for our sexual energy to be moving forward in an ever expanding direction. I promise this will create more happiness, more healthiness, more excitement and more love. Love is amazing but without sex it can become dull and boring. Take that love and add a lot of sex and see what happens. Remember sex is something that takes effort. Be consistent, be deliberate, be action oriented. Create hotness in your marriage! You deserve it.
If you feel there are emotions that are keeping you guarded in the bedroom or you feel stuck when it comes to wanting to express your sexual wants and desires please message me on facebook. I have assisted multiple women in releasing emotion that were creating physical pain as well as emotion pain in the bedroom. They are now experiencing joy and pleasure. Message me I can assist!
Today I want to address the sexual feelings that come up in our every day lives. I am not talking about feelings of being turned on or turned up. I am talking about the sexual feelings that come from a very judgmental space. Take a moment and think to yourself. When is the last time I had a sexual thought enter my mind that was a sex negative thought and not sex positive? For example. Lets say you and your honey go out to dinner. You are sitting in your booth when this woman who is dressed very sensual and very seductive walks by. What is your first thought? Do you think " She is dressed very slutty and she is trying to get attention" or do you think "There is a woman who is very confident in her body and I can see her beauty as well as value her sensual side". Here is another example. Lets say you are watching T.V. when a commercial comes on with this sexy man. Mastic, built, and eyes that could melt the panties right off a woman. Do you think " Wow...he is so slutty why does he have his shirt off" or do you think " This man is beautiful and can see his sexual, sensual side"?
I use these two example because as women we have got okay with men being sexual and showing their sexual self but when it comes to our own sisterhood we usually choose judgment and negative talk. WHY? Woman are just as beautiful and amazing as men are. If I see a beautiful, sexy, seductive woman I think to myself there is a beautiful , sexy, seductive woman. When I judge her and condemn her I am judging myself and condemning myself. What we see in others we see in ourselves.
For the next week really focus on having SEX POSITIVE thoughts. Always think positive sexual thoughts and see the beauty in others expressing their sexual self as well as see the beauty in your sexual essence wanting to come out and be discovered. Our thoughts create our reality. Use this powerful thought machine to your advantage. We all want to feel confident, beautiful, sexy, slutty, happy, trashy, confident women in the bedroom. The only way you are going to reach this goal is to change your thoughts.
Love yourself, love others, love life, love nature, love sex, love prayer and love everything you can. Like attracts like so when we are sex positive and see beauty in everything sexual then we will feel more beautiful and amazing in the bedroom!
Here is a shout out to all the beautiful women of the world. We are all sexy, sensual and seductive.
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My name is Cameo .I have been married for 19 years and with my husband for 20.5 years. I know that the sexual connection in a marriage can create strength and happiness and I also know the lack of a sexual connection can leave you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Lets get real open and become sexually satisfied in our marriages!