Have I been projecting my insecurities about my sexual self onto my husband?
Have I blocked myself from receiving passion and pleasure?
Have I shut down my sexual yumminess?
In marriage these are all amazing questions to ask ourselves. We all want to be sexually satisfied. The bedroom is the couples playground where we can express our wants, desires, emotions and receive so much joy and pleasure.
Have we been cutting ourselves off from this delicious passion that can fill up our minds, bodies and souls?
I am experiencing a new kind of sex. A sex that is so energetically connected that I can feel burst of orgasmic energy coming through me. I can feel it deep inside my soul. I can experience pleasure that I never thought I could. This pleasure is so beautiful and life transforming.
We deserve to stop shaming our genitals and fall in love with them again. The pussy and the penis are similar to a lock and key. The penis is the key. He holds power, honor and a deep longing to penetrate. He holds the ability to open the box that holds all the treasures. The pussy is the lock. She wants to be caressed, cared for, understood and she longs to be penetrated. She holds the ability to receive, transform and transfer sexual energy back and forth from the feminine to the masculine and from the masculine to the feminine.
Sex is so much more then most of us ever experience. Some of the reasons we may not be receiving all the sexual pleasure we deserve are from the questions I asked above.
If there is sexual shame inside the marriage, then allowing ourselves to be open and vulnerable will never happen. When there is sexual shame then we are in a defensive mode and we are just trying to guard and protect. We are like a double agent. We long for pleasure but there is no way in hell that we are going to allow ourselves to feel. Sexual shame will shut us off from the most amazing of connections. The sensations that we can feel inside our bodies when we are truly connected to our sexual energy is out of this world awesome. We deserve to work through our sexual shame. We deserve to climb the mountain of pain, shame, guilt and sadness so we can get to the top and receive feelings of passion, pleasure, happiness and joy. We deserve to feel this orgasmic energy that is absolutely palpable even when your not having sex. Releasing the shame is the best thing we can do for ourselves. Releasing the shame is the best thing we can do for our spouse. Releasing the shame is the best thing we can do for our bedroom and releasing the shame is the most amazing thing you can do for your pussy and or penis.
I believe that our wedding vows should include the promise to be dedicated to create the best sexual connection a husband and wife can have inside the bedroom. Sex is so special and can create a link between a man and a woman that is electric and sensational. An energy that is felt in and out of the bedroom. A bond that is so beautiful and so satisfying.
Sex is extremely powerful and has the capability of completely transforming our marriage. We must decide, commit and succeed when it comes to sensations, satisfying sex inside our marriage. As a husband and a wife, sex should always be something you are working on together. How to connect on a deeper more intimate level. Lets all commit to becoming sexually awakened inside our marriage so we can transform the level we connect on. Intimacy creates a deep connection.
Choose to breakthrough the shame, pain and guilt. Choose to reawaken your passion, pleasure and playfulness inside the bedroom.