Today allow yourself to open up and share a fantasy in
the bedroom. I know that we all have fantasies. We may even have fantasies that
may never be able to come true due to our morality but we can still discuss them
with our partner. It is so much fun to talk openly about the thoughts we have
about sex. Choose to find a time that you can open up with one another and talk
about sex with no judgment or criticism. This may be intimidating at first so make it short and sweet. If you have a fantasy of acting out a shower scene you have witnessed in a movie then share this. I am sure you will receive a surprising response from your spouse. If you have a hard time verbally connecting then write your spouse
a short letter and pick a time and day that this fantasy will be created in your
relationship. You may be nervous at first but I know that you will feel more
free in your sexuality. When we feel trapped and our sexuality is being
suppressed then we can create anger, distance and regret in our relationship.
When we feel trapped we start feeling and looking for an out. We have to start
stepping out into the freedom of our sexual selves. Sex is an art that can and
deserves to be mastered. Freedom of sexual expression is a powerful tool that
can and will allow you to feel more sexually secure. Start standing strong and
remember how it feels to share your wants and desires with the person you have
choose to spend your life with. This is the one person that can assist you in
bringing all your sexual desires to life. Start writing your own sexual script
and start creating a sensual connection that only the two of you can experience.
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