Orgasms are a great key to health and happiness. They help us to remember who we are, beyond our everyday reality. Orgasms are a path to truth and the meaning of life. ~Dr. Annie Sprinkle Female orgasm is a beautiful experience. Once we learn to relax and connect openly and honestly with our spouse and ourselves then orgasm can be empowering and liberating. We get to realize there are many different sensations when we are being sexual. There are also many different types of orgasms we can experience. When we become comfortable with ourselves sexually and with experimenting and not being afraid then these orgasmic sensations, will be fun and exciting. Women can have an orgasm with breast stimulation alone. I personally had never experienced such an orgasm until about a month ago. I am 35 and have just got to the point, about a year ago, that I am completely comfortable and I feel 100% safe with my husband. Trusting and feeling safe are so important when we are wanting to experience different sexual orgasms. Have your husband kiss you for a while and then start slowly and softly rubbing your breast over your shirt. Then when you feel it is right lose the shirt and add some soft kissing and small, gentle nibbles. It is amazing that you can orgasm this way but is it so nice as the vaginal area never comes into play. TRY IT! Another experience I have recently experienced is female ejaculation. When my husband and I are intimate there are times I feel the extreme sensation that I am going to urinate. I would never want to urinate in such a beautiful moment so I always have pulled back and shifted positions so this sensation would stop. After reading many books on sex I found out that this is the feeling you will feel before you ejaculate. I feel super comfortable with my husband so I told him before hand that I was going to lean into this feeling and see what happened. It was the first time I allowed myself to release into this sensation and female ejaculation did occur. I don't want to be to graphic but I feel it may serve other women who experience this and may be ashamed or embarrassed. I released a lot of clear fluid. I was squirting out small amounts of fluid with force. It was not urine. It had no smell and it was a clear fluid. It was an amazing experience as I was wanting it to happen. I can see how this could be embarrassing if I had no idea what was happening and my husband and I assumed that I had urinated during sex. As women there are so many amazing sexual experiences. We must relax and become comfortable with them. Enjoy ourselves and let our sexual, sensual self take over in the bedroom. Release inhabitations and become the sexual woman God created you to be. No shame and No guilt just pure pleasure and pure love! There are many books on this subject. You can check them out from the library or buy them on Amazon. Here are 2 that I have enjoyed Female Ejaculation and the G-spot ~ by Deborah Sundahl The ultimate guide to Orgasm for women ~by Mikaya Heart
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Christa
10/9/2012 02:32:09 am
welcome to the world of female ejaculation. It is quite liberating. an Exciting!! When you discover the secrets of your body and share them with you hubby. You feel empowered the female body is amazing and often times it was so faux paux to talk about it. But now we are able to express and accept more have fun in intamacy and reconnect with out spouses. When we know what feels good for ourselves then we can let our hubby know an we can both enjoy the new doors opened. We women have to know we eserve to feel complete and we can give in to the sensations ou body feels. Moan and use words that help to get us going as well as our hubby. Its all very good!!
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