be secure in the things you enjoy

It was Saturday evening. Jeff and I had just had a long
talk about what I would like to experience this evening. I am, by nature, the
  dominant one in the bedroom. I asked Jeff to spend time caressing me, kissing
  me, touching me softly. Moving slowly and gently Jeff did all the things that I
  asked and to my surprise I didn't enjoy it as much as I expected. I loved that
  Jeff did all the things I asked. I enjoyed the intimate connection that was
  being created BUT I love being the dominant one in the bedroom. I love being
  the one to touch, kiss, caress, and have my husband in the palm of my hand.
  This is what turns me on. I thought that I would be able to be the one that
  laid in bed and received all the pleasure but I found out that what pleases me
  is being the dominant one. I now know that this has nothing to do with being
  uncomfortable receiving. This has to do with my sexual preference. I am aware
  100% that my place in the bedroom is just that...MY PLACE. I love being the
  giver. As I am giving I am more turned on then I am by being the receiver. My
  husband is an excellent lover and knows all the right moves. He is amazing and
  is always focused on making sure that I am satisfied in and out of the
  bedroom.  We get to find our place
in the bedroom. Try being the giver and then try being the receiver. See which
one fits your personality better. They will both feel great but one will feel
  RIGHT! We get to become comfortable with our place in the bedroom. Do not be
  ashamed if you are dominant in the bedroom. This is a great place to express
  who you are. The bedroom is a place where you can find many of your inner
  truths. Start feeling comfortable with yourself in and out of the bedroom. I
  promise you will feel liberated by doing so!

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