Do you feel a deep love for your husband?
Do you feel a desire to hold him and tell him everything is going to be okay?
Are you showing up for your husband with compassion, caring and kindness?
Are you allowing yourself to be pleased with him?
I feel that men get overlooked so easily when it comes to relationships. Men have deep emotional needs just like us women do. They may shut down easier or push their desires aside but they long for love, approval and acceptance. Men actually long for this emotional connection with their wife. She has the power to make him feel as thou he is on the top of the world, arriving full of confidence, power and passion. She too has the power to make him feel as small and worthless as a tiny grain of sand. Men want to feel needed, wanted, cared for and approved of. Men long for unconditional love, a great sexual connection and a satisfied wife. This is what he is built for. His natural instinct is to please.
I know that this may not feel like the case. It may feel more like he is constantly withdrawing and retreating. It may feel like he is shutting us out and living in his own reality. It may feel like he is there but not there.
To him, this is the way he copes with the feeling of disappointing his queen.
So lets start rebuilding the relationship between husband and wife.
Here are a few things that I have found that allows my man to feel loved and approved of. Some are super easy and some are creating a more vulnerable experience.
Take time and show up for your man. I promise you will both be pleased with the results