We don't often hear that word at all anymore. It is
usually referred to as some mystery word that has no correlation with the vagina
itself. We hear words like " down there", your girl parts and other silly
terms...when my girls where little I always used the word foofur! I have since
learned the importance of calling this what it is...the vagina . When boys enter
this world they are directly connected to their penis. They can see it, touch
and they are immediately exploring how this miraculous body part works. How it
hangs, what makes it move, they can stand and pee and they are in love with it
from day one. I have a son and have witnessed this first hand. Even when he was
little he always had his hand down is pants holding this wonderful body part
called the penis.
As girls we have to be a private investigator when it
comes to the vagina. It is all tucked away and hidden so we do not have a direct
relationship with it from the moment we are born. When girls are babies the pee
and poop can seem like they come from the same place and cause a early
disconnect from the beautiful vagina. When boys are babies there is a clear
distinction between the penis, where pee comes out and the anus, where poop
comes out. Girls can also create
feelings of resentment and anger. I am not saying we all have " penis envy" but
men are so proud of their sexual organ. They talk about it, they know which way
it hangs , they know what excites it and what doesn't. They love their
As women we
get to spend time exploring this sexual organ called " the vagina".
What makes it wet? what makes it happy? what makes it feel like receiving
sexual pleasure? Do you like it shaved? Do you like it with a racing stripe? Do
you like it full and bushy? The only way you are going to know the answers to
these questions is to spend time on each question. Try different things and you
will know what you like and do not like.
The vagina is a gift to women. We get to love the vagina
as much as men do. Become dedicated to connecting to this beautiful, sexual body
part. The vagina connected with the mind can give you unlimited pleasure. It is
not shameful and it is not bad. The vagina is beautiful, amazing, sexual,
and it gets to receive the manly penis. Get comfortable using the
word vagina and get comfortable allowing yourself to receive pleasure from this
glorious body part called....THE VAGINA!!!
My name is Cameo .I have been married for 19 years and with my husband for 20.5 years. I know that the sexual connection in a marriage can create strength and happiness and I also know the lack of a sexual connection can leave you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Lets get real open and become sexually satisfied in our marriages!