This belief was created by my little girl self. She heard something scary and connected the dots. This was all wrong. Sex is not scary. Sex is not painful, well unless you want it to be! Sex is not a woman pleasing her man no matter what he wants and no matter how he treats her. Every woman and every man deserves to experience sex is the most amazing way. Sex is an expression of love. Sex is an expression of connection. Sex is an expression of being vulnerable. Sex is an expression of sharing the most deepest and naked parts of ourselves. This is beautiful . This is amazing. Sex is the way we can give pleasure and the way we can receive pleasure.
We deserve to look at where we created our own personal sexual beliefs and then release the ones that are not true. In marriage sex is one of the greatest of gifts. True intimacy and a cosmic bond is a must to have a successful and flourishing relationship. I know that sex is not everything in a marriage but it should be something that we are always working on. Sex is God's gift to us. We get to have and experience such intense pleasure. Don't shut it off. Don't allow a belief to hold you hostage in the bedroom. You deserve love. You deserve pleasure. You deserve amazing sex and that begins with the beliefs we hold. Decide today to create empowering beliefs when it comes to sex. Release any attachments to the word sex that are not true for you. Sex is what we create it to be. We must create a master piece. We will have to walk through the emotional pain and shift and release some beliefs and experiences but on the other side of the fire is pure openness, lovingness, kindness and sexual satisfaction. Challenge your sexual beliefs and create new ones today!
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