Lets talk about moving in a sexual way throughout the day for your man and
yourself. Most men are very visually stimulated while most woman are stimulated
through the spoken word. If we, as women, have the intention of seduction and
sensuality then we can have our body be the canvas for these thoughts and
intentions. I am not suggesting that we put on the shortest skirt, with thigh
high boots...although...this works wonders for your mans visual eye( believe
me). I am suggesting that throughout the day, you do have sexual thoughts and
when you receive these thoughts relay them to your man through your movement.
Become one with your thoughts and your body. Woman, no matter your size or
shape, are absolutely beautiful. The female body is a work of art...become at
ease sharing this art with your man. When you are washing the dishes and your
man comes up behind you, don't just stand still. Slowly arch your back and ever
so slightly press your body into his. Stop washing the dish and close your eyes.Enjoy this sensual moment. When you open the fridge to get something out, slowly bend down in a sexy fashion to capture your mans eye.When you give him a kiss, linger a little longer then you normally would, kissing his neck and inhaling his wonderful scent( hopefully its wonderful).
When I have a sexual thought I am comfortable caressing myself in front of my husband. Not is a porn star type of way but in a way that allows him to know that I am longing to be passionate with him.I will slowly run my hand up my leg into my inner thigh or I will run my hand down my neck and across my breasts while giving him a look of wanting and longing.
Use these sexual thoughts and your body to charge your connection in the bedroom.
Sexual thoughts are normal and will assist in increasing the passion in the
bedroom as long as you get comfortable having them. If guilt is attached then
sexual thoughts will make you feel dirty and shameful. Guilt has no place in the
bedroom. Great sex will shift your marriage. I promise. Getting to a place where you feel open to have conversations and erotic exchanges with your spouse throughout the day will
increase the heat and create sparks that will turn your bedroom from smolder to blaze!
Lets get real, honest and open in the bedroom!