Men are such basic creatures! They can flourish and thrive on 4 things.
- Simple Service
- Softness ,to be loved and treated as thou he is your king
- Solitary time without interruption
If we take a moment and take a look at what men want and how they operate we would be thankful that they run on such an easy operating system. They run on a system of Sex, Service, Softness and Solitary. If we can realize how happy these 4 things make a man we would be playing the hand that is so easily been dealt to us. Most women are naturally service oriented. Most women love to be soft, gentle, caring and kind. Most women understand the need and desire to have some quiet time, alone with yourself and your thoughts. Most women want to have an amazing sex life. The kind of sex life that you can actually get to the point where your husband is turning you down. haha...(This won't happen often and usually I have to plan it out when I know my hubby is super sick, just so I can say " Remember that time you turned me down!!) Anyway, if we as women can find a place of love and nurturing without treating our man like one of the kids then...whola...magic.
I treat my man like a man. I don't need him.....I WANT him. I DESIRE him. I LOVE him.
Make sure your man is feeling loved, cherished, longed for, and desired. Men want the acceptance, approval and admiration of their woman. They want love and respect and they flourish when they know their woman wants them sexually. Sex creates a feeling of love, acceptance and approval. Sex makes him feel whole, complete and happy. Sex is not the only thing he wants but he loves the feeling of sex more then you or I could ever completely understand.
Create a decision today to treat your man like the man that he is. His deep desire is to be accepted, admired and approved of. He wants your unconditional love and your unconditional sex.
Men are amazing and when we treat them with the honor they deserve you will see changes in your relationship that you only thought was possible in romantic movies.