Stress and Sex...Is stress dictating your sex life!
With all the daily stress in our lives it is no mystery as to why our sex drive is
getting lower and lower. Stress produces cortisol and
cortisol decreases testosterone.
Now men have 10 times more testosterone then woman so even with daily
stress they are still ready to get frisky at any moment sometimes more frisky
and sometimes less. I read that a man could be standing in two feet of pig poop and a sexy woman could walk by and the first thing they think about is sex but a
woman can be feeling as sexual as ever and step over a dirty sock and the
feeling is lost. Women are created with small amount of testosterone so when
stress hits we can feel our sexual desire fade away. This is understandable. I
am not saying that we have to get away from all stresses as that would be an
impossible task. Stress is part of life but as women we get to find ways to
reduce the small daily stresses so connecting on an intimate level is smoother
and easier. When we can allow the little things to roll of our shoulders then we
can move closer to our husband in a sexual way. I have found that sex itself
reduces stress for me. When I am using energy to show my husband how much I want
and love him then the stress that I feel can fade. If I am unable to allow the
little stresses to roll off my shoulder then I channel this energy in a sexual
way and treat my husband like the naughty, dirty man he wants to be sometimes. I
can use the stress to transform from a nice, loving wife to an aggresive, naughty
sexual diva. Sex is beautiful, natural and absolutely amazing but you can shift
sex at times and become that naughty, hot school girl that is ready to tear into
her husband like the hot piece of meat he is. As we learn to channel stress
into and out of our daily lives it can fuel our sexual mood. We can allow stress
to take away our sex drive completely or, we can learn to release stress and
have electrifying sex, or we can take the daily stress and channel that into
hot, angry, stress fueled sex. Sex is amazing in so many different ways so start
embracing and enjoying every way.
My name is Cameo .I have been married for 19 years and with my husband for 20.5 years. I know that the sexual connection in a marriage can create strength and happiness and I also know the lack of a sexual connection can leave you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Lets get real open and become sexually satisfied in our marriages!