Jeff and I just returned from our 12 year anniversary trip. We usually stay close to home but we decided to venture out . We had an amazing trip. It was filled with love, laughter and yes a lot of sex. I believe many couples, mostly women, opt out of weekend getaways. As women we can easily disconnect from our sexual self. We are busy cooking and cleaning. We are busy paying the bills and taking the kids to and from all their daily activities. We are sweeping the floors, making the beds and doing the never ending laundry. It can be very difficult to shift from our motherly self into our sexually confident self. We all have that woman inside of us that is full of passion, lust, desire and a longing for hot, wild sex. The kind of sex that leaves you thinking and feeling sexy for days. Here is my suggestion....Think about and tap into that sexual woman everyday. You have to intentionally tap into your sexual power on a daily basis. We have all heard the saying " if you don't use it, you lose it". This goes for our sexual energy as well.
Start with small things that create a sexual feeling easily. I know every woman has to have eaten a banana once in her life and while eating this you start thinking about a nice, luscious penis! This banana instantly turns into a sexual object that is fun to devour. Do this. Go get yourself a banana and eat it in a way that creates some sexual thought and some sexual energy. If you are feeling vivacious then eat, lick and suck this banana in front of your hubby. He will absolutely love it and you will both connect sexually. When you are making your bed think sexual thoughts. Think of all the yummy things you and your man are going to experience together tonight. You have the right to be a sexual being. If we are never allowing ourselves to be and feel sexual then these weekend getaways could be really intimidating. Be and think sexual in your everyday life. Do not allow motherhood and your daily life to shut down the sexual goddess within. We are human. Humans are sexual beings. I am woman....here me ROAR with a sexy seductiveness!
Your weekend getaways are the time to turn the heat up not on! Your sexual fire should always be on, maybe at a low flame but always on. This allows sex to become the number 1 focus when you are on your weekend sexcation! It is so liberating to be the type of woman who is confident, secure and ready to be sexual at any moment. This is the time you can let your sexual self be front and center. I allowed myself to be fueled by sex and it was exciting, passionate and at times risky...yes risky can be sexy. Remember to always think about sex on a daily basis. Do things that create a sexual thought, feeling or emotion. Tap into your sexual self and always keep this part of yourself activated. Never shut down sexually. This should be 1 of the 7 deadly sins..."Thou shall not shut down ones sexual self"!!! Awaken to the power of sex and the happiness it creates in your marriage. Get sexy, Get Sensual, Get Sexalicious!!!