What are the first thoughts that come to mind when you think about sex?
Are your thoughts sex positive or sex negative?
Lets face it, sex is super important in a marriage. Without intimacy you are just really great friends. Friendship is great. I love being a friend to my husband. As matter as fact ,he is my best friend. I have found that when I allow this friendship to be my only focus sex can usually fall to the way side. Most people don't have sex with their friends, some may but most don't! I have come to the conclusion that my thoughts about sex determine my actions about sex. If I am thinking thoughts such as " I feel fat, I hate how I look naked, I am tired, I don't enjoy sex" then this is exactly what I create in my life when it comes to sex. Personally I want to have amazing sex. I want to feel awesome about who I am as a sexual women expressing my desires to and with my husband. So I have decided to think sex positive thought, such as " I love having sex with my husband, I orgasm effortlessly and easily, I love being touched in a seductive way, I love expressing to my husband how bad I want to please him sexually". These are the thoughts that I have about sex. I will not allow myself to have negative thoughts about sex any longer. I have changed my thoughts for a whole year now and it has changed my sexual experience tremendously! I enjoy having sex. I love thinking sexual thoughts. I love expressing my sexual wants and desires. I know that I am a woman who deserves to release all the shame, guilt and judgment that I have allowed inside my belief system when it comes to sex. We are sexual beings who thrive when we receive sexual pleasure. So commit to yourself for just 7 days to only allow SEX POSITIVE thoughts into your system. Whenever a negative thoughts pops into your head quickly change it to have a positive spin. Do this for 7 consecutive days and notice how different you feel. You will be absolutely amazed at how easily you can change your sexual awareness to be completely positive and out of this world exciting. Monitor your sexual thoughts, make them positive and watch your sexual satisfaction flourish!