The last 3 weeks have been a bit chaotic. Our youngest got sick , then our middle child, then Me, then our teenager and now my husband is feeling a bit under the weather. We had family in town and volleyball games to attend. We had work that needed to be done and household chores to tend to and SEX fell right off both mine and my husbands radar. For almost 3 weeks there has been no sexual connection. Maybe a brush up against each other here and a rub or a pat there but besides that....crickets. I have to say that as a woman I feel as thou I can go weeks and weeks without sex. I definitely don't need it to function but OMG I feel like the biggest bitch when I am not sexual with my husband. I feel so disconnected from this man that I love so very much. I start searching for and noticing all my husbands faults. I start having a bad attitude and I start focusing on the negatives of our marriage. Sex is the bond that woman so desperately need. It is so easy for women to feel as thou we don't need sex and in some cases don't want sex but we have bought into something that is not true at all. We are not nymphos if we want sex often. We are amazing women who knows that power of a great sexual bond. Sex creates happiness. Sex creates a spiritual, emotional and physical bond that is a palpable energy. Sex is uplifting. Sex is raw. Sex is beautiful. Sex is exactly what women need to be happy inside their marriage. Last night my husband and I created space to have sex. It was exactly what I needed to shift my perspective. When I am sexually satisfied by my lover then it is so easy to see him in an amazing light. We all want to be pleasured and we all want to experience pleasure. When we are sexually connecting then the negatives of our marriage are no longer the focal point of our relationship. The beauty of the sexual experience becomes the focal point.
Decide today to take a journey to discover your sexual self. Commit to it long term. I have been on a journey for years to release old beliefs and old thought patterns and acquire new empowering beliefs and thought patterns that allow me to fully enjoy sex.
As women we deserve to be sexually satisfied. We deserve sexual pleasure and sexual enjoyment. We deserve to embark on the journey to discover our whole self and this includes the sexual energy that we carry.