* Have you ever experienced the feeling that you love your husband but sex with him feels like the last thing you want to do?
* Have you ever felt like you are almost to close to one another and the passion, that passion that two strangers have, will never be rediscovered?
I was thinking today there have been times in my marriage that Jeff and I have felt like the best of friends. I can tell him anything and feel so comfortable in our relationship and I know he is my kindred soul husband. The first date Jeff and I went on I came home and told my mom " I had a lot of fun on our date and that man will be my husband". This was not me throwing down a challenge. This was an inner knowing. I knew that Jeff and I were meant to grow together spiritually, physically, mentally and emotionally. We have had some super fun times, intense times, exciting times and then we have had the hardest most destructive times in our lives together as well. It is so fun having a partner in this life. I person that loves you from the deepest parts of his being and you love him that much as well. I have found that this type of deep connection can cause sex to become something that is easy to overlook. When you are connecting in a friendship way our subconscious mind starts to believe that we are just friends. It is amazing to be best friends with your spouse but the one thing that makes this relationship different from your pal down the street is the intimate moments that are shared between the two of you. Intimate moments and inside jokes can take you far into the depths of peaceful pleasure but when sex is no longer a focus in the relationship and it becomes something you think about once a month then the relationship loses its sparkle.
Marriage has so many parts, so many little pieces that allows the marriage to grow and flourish. Being sexually intimate is the gas for this marriage machine. Without sex you will still have a machine and it can look great on the outside but until you fuel it with gas it will just sit still. In marriage you should both be moving forward everyday. Moving towards one another. Fuel your marriage. Kiss one another, Caress each other, give sexy glances, entice each other with sexual gestures and plan a fun sexual day once a week. A day where sex is on your mind. When we are thinking about sex regularly then it is easier to be sexual. Fuel your marriage. I promise you will feel the difference!