Do you ever feel conflicted when it comes to who you are in your daily life and who you so badly want to be in the bedroom? As women of the 21st Century we are pulled in so many different directions. Most are Mothers, employees, bakers, organizers, cleaners, helpers, and so much more. Most of what women do on a daily basis can and will suck the sexy right from us if we allow it to. We as women deserve to choose sexiness. We deserve to feel empowered in the bedroom. We deserve to feel like the goddesses we are. I have noticed since becoming a mother that my sexy feeling can shut down pretty quickly if I allow it to. When I am feeling motherly I always felt like sexiness could not be part of the emotional state of mommyhood. When I was reading to my kids, changing their diapers, baking cookies with them or sitting down and having a conversations with them I would shut down my sexy. When we shut down our sexy it can be very challenging to turn her back on.
So when we are reading to the children we can still be in a sexy space. Sexiness is a state of mind. When we are baking with our kids we can still be in a sexy state of mind. When we are changing diapers we can still be in a sexy state of mind all though this one might be a bit more challenging but still possible. If we are not using the most powerful tool we have...our minds to keep our sexiness activated then it can take a lot to get the fire burning again.
When we are out gardening we can be in a sexy minded state. Just today I was out pulling weeds and when my husband pulled into the driveway he was very interested in me sexually...Not because I looked like a perfect 10 but he could feel my sexy minded energy. Sexiness is the way we feel about ourselves and allowing ourselves to have sexy thoughts. I love looking at my husband with thoughts of desire and lust. I love brushing up against him in an ever so slightly erotic way that only him and I know what is being created in this small but powerful moment. I love thinking sexy, I love being sexy, I love feeling sexy and most of all I love the way my husband receives my sexy energy.
So we as women can be a lady all through out the day. We can do all the things we do on a daily basis but now we can add this sexy energy. This sexy state of mind that only you know you are using the power of your sexual creative energy to allow yourself to fully express who you are in the beauty of your everyday life.
When we are in this sexy energy we feel ready to be sexual in a moments notice. We no longer require wining and dining...these things are nice but not required. When we are using the power of our sexy energy to feel sexy all through out the day then we can feel aroused just by a soft stare that last for a few seconds, or a masculine hand brushing up and down your back. These small moments can create erotic feelings and when erotic feeling are created it is so much easier to want to share ourselves sexually.
Commit for one week to think sexy thoughts all throughout the day. See and feel your energy shift when it comes to your sexual readiness and willingness. Men can do things to make us feel sexy all throughout the day but I prefer to allow myself to determine how sexy I am feeling and how powerful my sexual energy is.
Do this for one week and feel your sexual energy expand. Don't worry it will never expand beyond your comfort level!