I have noticed that certain days my man touches ,well not touches, grabs my butt and I feel my eyes do a slight roll. Why would I ever roll my eyes when my husband touches, grabs or caresses my in a seductive manner. He is just expressing his wants and desire for me, but after years of marriage I can take the grab of my butt as something that annoys me instead of flatters me. Men are sexual creatures and no matter what ,they are wanting to express their sexual desire in some form. My husband will come up behind me and kiss my neck ever so lightly...WOW, this gets my motor revved! My husband will look down my shirt when I am doing bent over rows while working out and his eyes tell me that he would like me to bend over without the rows. I can say something simple and straight forward and my hubby can turn that statement into me somehow ending up giving him pleasure orally. Something such as, " wow, this really sucks that I can't get a hold of the car dealership" and my husband will come back with something like " I got something that you can suck". He is just expressing his desire and want for me. So I get to choose how I am going to respond to these acts of sexual expression. I choose to enjoy them. I choose to long for them. I choose to accept them in loving and exciting way.
Sexual expression is different for men and women. I have found when I appreciate the butt grabs and I lean into my husband when he is behind me kissing and rubbing me then he feels wanted and desired as well. He know I want him as much as he wants me. He may have to wait for a more appropriate time for me to fully express my want but he knows that I enjoy the moments that we intimately connect for a brief moment.
I also love that my kids see this. I want my children to be comfortable with their sexuality all through their lives and when my husband and I touch one another in a seductive way then we may hear words like " Dad just grabbed moms butt" or they will cover their eyes and shake their heads but I know that they are learning that mommy and daddy love one another and we enjoy expressing that love. Kids deserve to see their parents kiss, touch, and express their want and desire towards one another.