Understanding your mans sexual desires. There is an opportunity to create the most amazing connection with our guys if we really tap into what makes them tick. Men want to be loved, appreciated, respected, approved of, desired and longed for. Men also want sex! As women we get to really take a moment and think of the last time we really rocked our guys world. I am not talking about letting him get on top of you and do his thing because it is your wifely duty. I am talking about taking time to plan the evening. Plan the seduction, plan the playfulness, plan the mood, plan the setting and play the part. Sex is such a fun way to express our creativity. In the next week commit to creating one night of hot ,erotic, sexy, seductive, mmm...mmm....mmm sex! Plan it out. The statement " if you fail to plan you plan to fail". I think this person was talking about sex( haha). Seriously, we plan our day out. We make a list, we check it twice, we are going to find out who's naughty or nice. Be Naughty. Be Seductive. Be playful. Be Sexy. Be Creative. Take a moment and plan out a sexual evening and surprise your husband. Get connected to your sexual energy. Get all sexed up. We have and yes I used the word HAVE to take control of our sexual satisfaction and create hotness in the bedroom. I know most women say " He expects me to get in bed and just be ready. I want foreplay, I want romance, I want him to take more time". I agree with you that these things have some relevance but we have the power to create what we want to experience sexually. When it comes to me and my hubby, He is down for anything I throw his way. He loves sexual excitement as much as he loves having a sexual night that is not so exciting. He just loves sex. It can be fast or slow. It can be a 5 minute quickie or it can be a 2 hour sexual energy exchange. I kind of hate the word making love because you love someone you don't make love to someone. Anyway....Your husband probably loves sex no matter how you are wanting to give it to him. So decide to take the time to plan it out so it serves your desires. It stimulates your wanting. It increases your excitement. We take time to plan a vacation because we want everything to go smoothly and we want to not miss all the wonderful attractions. Sex is the same thing. Sex will go smoother and you will have more fun when you put some effort into it. Take time and plan something sexual. I promise you that you will find yourself excited and a bit horny. We have the ability as women to take control in the bedroom because we are the ones that wants more in the bedroom. Most men are loving any type of sex but the type of sex you will have when you plan it out will excite you, excite your husband and you will fill a new spark. A little sizzle. You will awaken your sensual self. Be creative and let your sexual side be exposed. You will feel happy, peaceful and more centered in life. Get planning girl!