As I watched an episode of Everybody loves Raymond today I couldn't help but laugh.
As Debra is trying to talk openly to Raymond about what she would like more of
in the bedroom but she couldn't. She felt so uncomfortable discussing this
subject. I know that sharing something so personal , even with our spouse can be
intimidating and a little frightening. We get to take a deep breath and get real
comfortable discussing sex. The things we like, the things we don't like, the
things we want more of and the things we would like to try. Sex is a playground.
When we were young we didn't go to the playground and only swing. We went to the
playground and ran to swings, then off to the monkey bars, then over to the
balance beam, then over to the slide, then off to the basketball court and then
rolled down the steep hill. We wanted to try everything to find out what we
liked and didn't like. We didn't look at the slide and say " No I don't think I
would like that". We tried it once and fell in love with the sensation of slipping and sliding. The same factor goes into the bedroom. Open up. Try something new. Get comfortable with your sexuality. Get comfortable sharing your inner desires with the person that can bring them to life. Great sex can change your whole life. You will feel confident, secure, sexy, vivacious and satisfied. You will feel happy, peaceful, excited and sensual. Get comfortable with your sexuality and OWN IT!!!
This is not the episode I was watching but you will get a huge laugh at this one!