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6/17/2013

LUST...it is not a sin

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Today I want you to take some time and LUST over your husband. Let me ask you a question. When is the last time you have looked at your husband with the intention of creating a lustful sensation? When we are first together lust is something that occurs naturally. Lust is that feeling that arises when we have this powerful, longing, wanting and burning desire to be sexual. Lust in the beginning is strong and a force you can actually feel. After you have been together for a period of time the lust fades away...it's still there but it in no longer palpable...Here is some breaking news, did you know you can manufacture LUST? It requires focus, desire and pure unadulterated longing. It is powerful, intense and is so much fun to bring back into your marriage. Here are a few suggestions to ignite the spark of lust and turn it into a bright burning flame!

1. We have all seen a movie where there is this sexy woman laying out by her pool, when all of a sudden  here comes the guy to clean her pool. When this man enters the movie we notice everything about this shirtless hunk. This is what we get to do in our marriage with our hubby. Today my husband was out mowing the lawn. I sat down at our outdoor table and ate my breakfast. While I was eating I was creating lustful thoughts .  I was admiring my husbands beautifully sculpted shoulders. I enjoyed the nice curvature of his bicep and tricep muscles and how I wanted those hot arms wrapped around my naked body. I thoroughly enjoyed the masculine energy he was conveying.

2. Play the part: Become your own hot actress. When we are focusing on being more sexual in our marriage sometimes we have to play a part. The more we play the part the more oxytocin is released in our system assisting us in wanting to be sexual on a regular basis. We get to have fun with and in our sexuality. Playing a part in your own mind is amazing. I am not talking about dressing up like a cowgirl and having your hubby be an Indian. ( this is fun as well) I am talking about tapping into that sexual scene that you have seen on television or in your mind and become that character. For example: I love the show 9 1/2 weeks. I find it so erotic and full of passion and lust. I feel my sexual energy activate when I am watching this show. So I remember the sexy parts that I find erotic and tap into that energy. I  become a sexually focused woman with the assistance of playing a part. On a normal daily basis I don't feel like I can do a sexual strip tease for my husband or lightly tie him up and tease him playfully with my breath and a cupful of ice...but I can when I tap into this sexual part and I find it so exciting and thrilling. BECOME YOUR OWN HOT,SEXUAL ACTRESS!

Choose to focus on lustful thoughts in your marriage. You will have so much fun longing for your husband again. It is so easy to fall into the trap of feeling non sexual BUT we are sexual beings and when we are fulfilled sexually our whole outlook on life changes for the better!




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