Invent a New Sexual Script

After years of marriage and going to bed with the same person every night it is easy to have a mental script of what every night may look like. We either make a decision to read in bed, work in bed, watch t.v in bed, or we roll over and go to sleep. We get to rewrite our bedroom script. The bedroom is where magic happens. The bedroom is the place where walls come down
 and true intimacy is shared.










The bedroom is the place where you can express
 your inner goddess and she is received with open arms. The bedroom is a place
  where you can live out our inner most sexual desires and we get to do this with
  the person we love. We get to rewrite our bedroom script. Tonight after the
  kids are in bed, slip into something sexy, something you would not normally
  wear. This will activate the sexual energy that you may be suppressing. Lock
  your doors and put on some music that ignites your flame. Then lavish each
  others bodies. Sex is not just intercourse. Sex is an event that should last
for at least 30 minutes and if you have a few hours that is even better. Rewrite
your script. Act as thou you have just met and make out for at least 10 minutes
  before any penetration can occur. Ask your husband to not touch your boobs or
  vagina and get you excited in other ways until you are begging for him to unleash
  his sexual manhood on you. Remember all the ways you wanted to sexually connect
  when you first met. Take some of those exciting ways and implement them into your sexual life. Sex is fun, creative, beautiful and passionate. 
Sex can be slow, sex can be soft, sex can be long,  sex can be hard, sex can be peaceful or sex can be  full of intense energy
that makes you feel like you could hurt each other ( in a loving way). Rewrite
your sexual script. 
Create a commitment and try something new at least 1 times every
week. The more sexual we are with one another on a consistent basis the more
sexual energy will develop and expand. Keep being sexual and soon you will not
be able to keep your hands off one another. We have been married for 14.5 years
and together for 13. I am more confident, secure and sexual then I have ever
been but I put in the effort daily. Sex is super important in a marriage. Sex
makes me feel happy and excited. I love learning new things and trying them out.
Sex allows us to discover things about ourselves that we would never know other wise. Keep learning, growing and expanding your knowledge and
soon you will be the sexual soul you deserve to be. Rewrite your sexual script! 

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