After reading Heart Song by Stephen Shaw , which is an amazing book, I created some new things in my life. I love to dance. I am a 35 year old woman who has not taken a professional dance class since I was 15. I have been on the club dance floors alot but never in a classroom type of setting. I decided to take a dance class. I wanted to take a class that assisted me in awakening my sexual energy. I decided to take a pole dancing class. This was not a pole fitness class. This was a pole dancing class. I absolutely loved it. I felt so comfortable and was so excited to try something new. I had butterflies in my stomach. I was nervous, anxious and excited all at the same time. This class did assist me in feeling more sexual and comfortable with my sexual energy. I was in a class with 8 woman and I was the oldest by far. I am sure the average age was 20-25. I still allowed myself to be completely comfortable. Just because I am a Mother of 3 and 35 I too can be super sexy and emit a sexual energy. I found myself in a zone. A zone of loving myself unconditionally and I was proud that I stepped out of my daily routine and did something new. I suggest that we all set a goal of trying something new this month. Something that you have always wanted to do but never dared. Step out and try something new. You will either like it or you will know that it was not what you expected at all. As moms, wives and woman we can easily settle for the same safe life. We can still be safe and step out and see if our energy flows more openly. Try something new this month and let me know how it feels.