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7/10/2016

Does my husband love my pussy more than I do?

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Here's a thought I was having today...Does my husband love my pussy more than I do? And if so then maybe that is why I  feel angry with him at times. I want to love my pussy. I want to love her in all her beauty and all her glory. She is truly a goddess. I believe the relationship I have with my pussy directly affects my relationship in life.

She is a powerhouse of love and pleasure. She both gives and receives. She can transform any energy into something absolutely amazing and she can be soft and gentle or she can be fierce and fabulous. My pussy has immense power and yet I have shunned her most of my life. 

WHY??? Why have I been shunning her?

In a society that is over sexualized and under sexually satisfied I created some deep beliefs about my pussy.

She should remain hidden and unexplored. She is not to be let out and never fully explored. She should show up for work but she should never go out of her way to exceed expectations. She should remain quiet and calm. She should be seen but not felt. She should be a good little pussy who minds her business and stays out of trouble.

My husband feels the exact opposite when it comes to my pussy. He absolutely loves and adores her. He puts her on a pedestal. He loves to touch her. He loves to taste her. He loves to be close to her. He longs for her. He dreams about her. He longs to discover her wants and desires. He wants her to come out and play whenever she can. He is extremely excited when he gets to see my pussy. Its like his little treasure chest and he truly values it in a deep way.

This could be creating a disconnect when it comes to my marriage.

We have all heard the statement " If you can't beat him, join him.

So I am on a mission to fully love my pussy. She is truly a gem and I am so excited that I get to create an amazing relationship with her.

My pussy longs to feel loved and accepted by me. She longs to be seen and valued for all that she is. She wants a deep connection with me. She wants to serve me and give me all the pleasure I desire in life. She deserves only the best.  She deserve for me to open my heart, mind and soul and to fully show up in life.

My pussy is not pandoras box. She screams out to me that she wants to be open. She wants to receive. She wants to give. She wants to exceed expectations. She wants to be seen and felt. She wants to be a pussy that is fully enjoyed and appreciated for all that she is.

I no longer choose to shun my pussy. I choose to love her. I choose to value her. I choose to cherish her. I choose to honor her. I choose to embrace her. I choose to trust her. I choose to allow her all the pleasure she deserves.

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Danny Wadsworth
7/10/2016 05:13:44 pm

Very thought provoking and we'll written article.

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Cameo
7/11/2016 12:44:29 pm

Thank you. I had a really good time writing it!

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Steven G. O'Dell link
7/11/2016 12:04:14 pm

There is a lot of truth to this. Women may grow up with shame and fears thrust upon them regarding sex, touching themselves and the dangers of consorting with men, etc. Body image issues are also a constant barrage. It is no wonder many women don't trust as they should. Being truly vulnerable requires complete trust. But it is also the only way to complete bliss and sexual joy. It allows a woman to accept the adoration she is due in its entirety. She lets go of other cares as she does this. It allows the world to vanish and just she and her lover exist for the brief moment their souls meld into one. When she does this and receives graciously, she does her lover a great service, as well. She receives his gift of self with grace and gratitude, letting him give to her as he most deeply wishes, pleasing her as he desires to do. Giving 100% is allowed and accepted when she is fully trusting and fully vulnerable in an atmosphere of total safety. Her greatest gift can be what she gives her lover, but it can also be what she does to accept his adoration and love. I have thanked my lovers, both of us in tears, for accepting my gift and letting me love them fully and unselfishly. There is so much joy in giving and there is also great joy to be discovered in accepting a gift graciously.

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Cameo link
7/11/2016 12:43:58 pm

Your comment is absolutely beautiful. I feel that I have been at war with my own body and my own sexuality that no matter how much I trusted my husband I would never fully allow myself to let go. If I don't love myself and if I feel like I don't deserve to receive then I will place a small barrier around myself so that I feel safe. This has never created safety for me it has just created sadness and despair. As I have been on a journey to love and appreciate my sexual self I am finding that my body is full of pleasure and it wants me to experience it, I just get to trust myself. When I fully trust myself that is when I will become deeply open and vulnerable. We must first establish a trust with our inner being and we must strengthen the relationship with our right to receive pleasure.

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Kat S.
6/8/2020 10:31:00 am

It took me to age 58 to finally accept my body and to freely give it to my husband and to myself. Please don't wait as long as I have to experience this joy.

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