When we first start dating it seems so easy to feel comfortable expressing our girly figures. We focus on the art of seduction. We take time to make sure our legs are shaved, our bikini area is waxed and we smell absolutely delicious. We plan our outfits, make sure our hair looks amazing, our make up is done nicely and we have fun creating the canvas of feminine art. We focus on the beauty that we want to share and our feminine essence which we know will hook a man and drive him to want us.
FAST FORWARD 15 YEARS, 3 KIDS, 2 DOGS, FINACIAL GAINS, FINANCIAL LOSSES, MOOD SWINGS, BAD DAYS, GOOD DAYS, DAILY STRESS, NIGHTLY RITUALS, FAMILY DUTIES, TAKING THE KIDS HERE, TAKING THE KIDS THERE, WATCHING NETFLIXS, SEEING THE GOOD SIDE, SEEING THE NOT SO YUMMY SIDE AND WHOLA....
WHEN IS THE LAST TIME YOU TOOK THE TIME TO CREATE YOUR FEMININE ART FOR YOUR MAN?
I know that the instant I ask this question there will be an immediate story run inside your brain that says something like this " When is the last time my man did something romantic for me?"
I want to answer this with another question. Do you agree that we should not fight fire with fire?
We must commit to creating something exciting inside our marriage. Sex and sexual chemistry is super exciting. I strongly believe that as women we have the power to transform our marriage into something magical. To create something magical you first need a few ingredients.
1- Excitement to create something new
2- Passion to show up fully in your feminine essence
3- Confidence, even when you feel unsure....there is magic in getting uncomfortable
4- Love for yourself and for your man
5- Willingness to explore new terrain in the bedroom
It is so easy to forget how powerful this piece is in marriage. The sex and sexual yumminess deserves to be a focus. We must commit to remembering how amazing we are, how beautiful we are, how sexy we are. Our husbands want us to want to share this with them. They want to feel desired. They long to feel wanted. They love to feel our feminine bodies. I know that it is challenging with all the daily things that are taking place in our life. Just commit to one day.
Try this just one time and see if it creates a feeling of power, love, confidence, and arousal. Pick a day and create your feminine canvas. Turn yourself into the yummy goddess you know you are. Allow yourself to have fun with this. It will create some butterflies in your stomach. Remember butterflies in the stomach? You can still experience this after years and years of marriage. You now get to create it. Step outside your comfort zone in the bedroom and do something erotic.
You will feel alive. You will feel inspired. You will feel passionate. You will feel like the sexual diva you are!