Take a moment and question your beliefs about sex as a
woman or a man. As women we receive many messages that state if we love, crave
and enjoy sex that we are promiscuous and uncontrollable . Men receive the exact
opposite message. Men are expected to have a vigorous sexual appetite wanting
sex day and night. Both of these messages become embedded into our sexual
thoughts and behaviors, keeping us stuck and unfulfilled. Lets question these
beliefs. Is it wrong for me( a woman) to want sex with my husband on a daily
basis? Am I over board if I crave being on top of my husband using him for my
personal pleasure? Does it make me less of a woman because I like to be
dominate in the bedroom? Now for the men...Am I less of a man because I want to
roll over and go to sleep when my wife is touching me in a sexual manner? Does
the bedroom make you feel like this is another place you have to perform
perfectly? Is it wrong for me to want to lay back and have my wife be the
dominate one in the bedroom?
These are great questions. We get to decide what we like
and do not like in the bedroom without any outside influences. If I want to be
super dominate in the bedroom I will and I will feel great about it. If I crave
having sex with my husband then I will feel and express this emotion with no
guilt or shame. As a man it is acceptable to not have the highest sex drive and
still be a man. As a man sex does not define who and what you are. We get to
question our belief systems we have created around the gender roles in the
bedroom. Woman get to become comfortable with their sexuality and sensuality.
Men get to become comfortable not being a sexual tiger that is ready to pounce
on anything that moves. We decide, individually what we like and do not like in
the bedroom. We decide what sexual beliefs serve us and what beliefs are
baloney. Become comfortable with yourself and what you have to offer your
spouse sexually. Sex does not define you but when we become comfortable in and
with our sexuality then we will be librated in our marriage and
60 days to bedroom body will be launched on Nov 1st 2012. I have taken
everyday so you soon will see my results and then I will be
assisting others in
achieving their bedroom body!
My name is Cameo .I have been married for 19 years and with my husband for 20.5 years. I know that the sexual connection in a marriage can create strength and happiness and I also know the lack of a sexual connection can leave you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Lets get real open and become sexually satisfied in our marriages!