Take a moment and question your beliefs about sex as a woman or a man. As women we receive many messages that state if we love, crave and enjoy sex that we are promiscuous and uncontrollable . Men receive the exact opposite message. Men are expected to have a vigorous sexual appetite wanting sex day and night. Both of these messages become embedded into our sexual thoughts and behaviors, keeping us stuck and unfulfilled. Lets question these beliefs. Is it wrong for me( a woman) to want sex with my husband on a daily basis? Am I over board if I crave being on top of my husband using him for my personal pleasure? Does it make me less of a woman because I like to be dominate in the bedroom? Now for the men...Am I less of a man because I want to roll over and go to sleep when my wife is touching me in a sexual manner? Does the bedroom make you feel like this is another place you have to perform perfectly? Is it wrong for me to want to lay back and have my wife be the dominate one in the bedroom? These are great questions. We get to decide what we like and do not like in the bedroom without any outside influences. If I want to be super dominate in the bedroom I will and I will feel great about it. If I crave having sex with my husband then I will feel and express this emotion with no guilt or shame. As a man it is acceptable to not have the highest sex drive and still be a man. As a man sex does not define who and what you are. We get to question our belief systems we have created around the gender roles in the bedroom. Woman get to become comfortable with their sexuality and sensuality. Men get to become comfortable not being a sexual tiger that is ready to pounce on anything that moves. We decide, individually what we like and do not like in the bedroom. We decide what sexual beliefs serve us and what beliefs are baloney. Become comfortable with yourself and what you have to offer your spouse sexually. Sex does not define you but when we become comfortable in and with our sexuality then we will be librated in our marriage and bedroom! 60 days to bedroom body will be launched on Nov 1st 2012. I have taken my picture everyday so you soon will see my results and then I will be assisting others in achieving their bedroom body!
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