Belief 5...Good girls don't do that
We live in a society that we are
taught that girls are either Good or Bad. We are in one category or the other
and usually we wanted to be bad just to make our parents angry. I feel as most
girls wanted to be considered good. They tried very hard to make the right
decision and to wear the proper clothing...nothing to risqué or revealing. We
are taught that we do not want to send the wrong message and by acting, looking
and dressing properly we will be placed in the good girl category. Here is one
problem that gets created in this moment of good girl vs. bad girl. Do good
girls have great, uninhibited sex when they are married...probably not. The
belief is still embedded in our brain that Good girls would not behave in this
way. I am a good girl so the only way we can have sex is this one way so that I
can continue to hold onto this belief that I am good. Good girls are usually
very confused in the bedroom because sex feel good but the good girl has been
conditioned that sex is naughty and the only girls that did those kind of things
to a boy are girls that are considered troubled. Girls that were sexually
promiscuous had many issues and she was just using her body to get what she
wanted from a boy or man. So here lies the underlining issue. If we have a
belief that Bad girls use sex to get what they want from a man and good girl
have sex just to be a good wife then we will always feel so confused and part of
us will always wish that we are on the bad side of the fence. Well here is an
announcement...YOU ARE MARRIED NOW AND HAVE PERMISSION TO BE AS BAD AS YOU WANT IN THE BEDROOM~ Now is the time that you can act out all those wild fantasies that you have and had being a good
girl. Good girls can have great sex. The kind of sex that you lose yourself in
one another, your bodies become one and your sense of smell, taste and touch are
heightened so that you can truly enjoy the sensations from each other. If you
have felt as sex has to be un enjoyable and that you are having sex just to
please your husband and be a good wife then you are missing out on so much
pleasure in your marriage. As women we have a sex drive and sexual thoughts and
fantasies just like men we just hide it better. Start enjoying the sexual woman
that you are. You have the right to connect to your sexual self and to your
husband so that you both can experience a connection that God wants us to
experience. When we are sexually dissatisfied then tension, problems and faults
are always the things that are being focused on in marriage. We focus on the
bills, the kids, the dog, our religious groups and we place our sexual
connection to our spouse on the back burner. We tell ourselves that it can wait
and sex is not that important now. I am here to tell you that you are absolutely
mistaken. Sex will strengthen your bond as a man and wife. Sex will create love,
passion, communication, acceptance, truth and honesty. Sex is the foundation of
a marriage as now you have one person that you can sexually bond with for the
rest of your life. Sex should be something that you focus on as much as you
focus on creating an income. Sex is life sustaining in a marriage...so let your
bad girl out of her cage, Good girls as now you have legal permission to get
wild, crazy and experience pure sexual pleasure.
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