Belief 4...Everything has to be perfect for me to be in the mood

Beliefs 4...Everything has to be perfect for me to be in
the mood



As women we grow up with many items
being flashed in front of our undeveloped eyes and then beliefs get created. We
see so many movies that include these passionate, romantic, intimate moments
that draw us in and make us feel as thou we are missing something in our
marriage. The 5 star hotels, the limo, the new dress being sent to her from the
most expensive store around only to meet him at the most classiest restaurant in
town and then he surprises her with a helicopter on the roof that takes them to
Bora Bora so they can get lost in one another and lose all sense of time and
space. Romance novels are another big item that can create a vision of romance
in our heads and then we feel forever disappointed if this romantic play is not
happening every night in our reality. Romance is fabulous and can be a great
part of some sexual experiences but not all sexual experiences between you and
your husband have to be a 5 star event. Sex is a connection. Sex is something
that creates love, understanding, acceptance and trust. Romance is amazing and I
am all for creating evenings where the ambiance is perfect, the mood is
flourishing as the evening expands, the candles give off the perfect glow and
the sexual tension is getting so intense that you feel like a hot , sexy ,
desired woman that your husband can not wait to devour. These are great moments
and are required in a marriage. I am also here to say that there is also a place
for a quickie in the bathroom, or an unplanned moment of passion that takes
place in the kitchen, or while driving to the market you decide to exchange
sexual touches along the way. Sex is something that can be expressed in many
ways. Romance is great and should be experienced often. Quick sex is great and
should be experienced often. Unplanned sex is great and should be experienced
often and unadulterated touches should be happening wherever and whenever you
can get away with it. You are married now and you have the right to have and
hold and touch and grope as long as you both shall live!  

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