Ok ladies.... Lets take a moment and admit ...We all want to have amazing, erotic
sex! The type of sex that leave us feeling satisfied, uplifted and puts a smile
on our face and makes us glow for hours. This type of sex does not just come
naturally. We get to become stewards over our bodies, mind and spirit. We get to
become the sexual, sensual beings we are created to be. Release the shame and
guilt that at times accompanies feelings about sex. Use your mind to serve and
assist you in feeling more sexual. I was the only girl with 6...yes 6 older
brothers. I heard and saw many things sexually when I was growing up. Some have served me and some have not. One thing that has served me is my ability to think sexual thoughts. Not down and dirty thoughts( although I have those as well) but I have the ability to take things that people say and have a sexual thought.
When I have a sexual thought I enjoy it. I do not attach shame or guilt to this thought. I allow the thought and then release the thought.
Sexual thoughts are healthy.
Have you ever heard the saying "it doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you come home to eat"? I do not love this statement but there is truth to it.
When you are thinking sexually then it is easier to be sexual. When you are
comfortable with your sexual self then having sex with your spouse will be
amazing and inspiring. Sex will become fun, exciting, playful and full of
satisfaction. Use your mind in a sexual fashion and start receiving the
pleasures of being sexually secure. Women have sexual thoughts and they are meant to be enjoyed not ignored. Like the old saying goes..." A dirty mind is a
terrible thing to waste".
I do caution you to becareful using books and erotic films to spark this sexual thought. Our minds are super powerful and these tools can be more damaging then rewarding. You want to feel positive with your sexual thought. I have found that erotic books is a damaging tool for me as my mind gets to involved and then my real sexual life seems like it is lacking something. Find what works for you and be positive about it!