It is October 16th! The last time I wrote a blog was August 30th. During this six week vacation from blogging I also decided to try a little experiment. There was no way I could go six weeks without sex nor would I ever do that to my husband but I did want to go back to a place where sexual intimacy was limited and see how it felt. During this 6 weeks, Jeff and I were intimate only 7 times. OMG. This was so sad for me and my emotional state. I felt sad a lot of the time. I felt as thou I was missing something special in my life. If I was unaware that these emotions came from the lack of sex I would have started blaming my husband for a lot of things. I noticed when we are not being sexual with our spouse we are missing a part of our purpose for being together. When we are not having sex on a consistent basis then it is really easy for use to continue not having sex on a consistent basis and not even be aware of all the emotional disconnect it is creating. Marriage is amazing and you can have so much fun in the bedroom as well as out of it. Sex is so important. Being sexual connects you to an empowering energy that creates a feeling of togetherness and a feeling of happiness. I can feel myself brighten the moment I have sex with my husband. Sex can be like riding a bike. It is something we know how to do but how long has it been since you have been on a bike? We deserve to be conscious of our sexual energy and allow this energy to be felt, shared and experienced in our marriage.
If you ask me what the primary reason is that people get divorced, I would have to say the lack of sexual happiness. When we feel as thou we are missing something in our marriage that something is usually SEX! Do not allow sex to fade in your marriage. It can be difficult at first to re engage sexually. Just decide. Decide, Commit, Succeed ! This is a great motto for your sexual happiness. You will find yourself excited about life again .When you are sexually playful and begin to open up sexually, you will truly feel vibrant and whole. Sex is a huge piece of the marriage puzzle. When we commit to be with one person as long as we both shall live, we are also committing to have the best sex life possible, when we put in the effort.
Take a step today and decide to be sexual at least 3 times a week. Even if you have to schedule it at first. Even if it is at the same time, in the same position, and not very orgasmic. We get to break through our sexual beliefs and know that we are meant to receive pleasure. With consistent effort and committed action we will be on an orgasmic path to extreme happiness and utter fulfillment!