I wanted to share the idea of SCHEDULED SEX!
When I first heard the suggestion of scheduling sex I thought " I want to be
spontaneous and wild". I didn't want to schedule sex every Monday, Wednesday and Friday as the excitement would
be non existent. Doing more research and I have found that with extremely busy
schedules and all the stresses we encounter on a daily basis I feel the best way
to reconnect as a married couple sexually is scheduled sex. Here is why. After a long day of cleaning the house,
running the kids around, shopping for groceries, preparing dinner, bathing the
children and getting them to bed by the time I crawl into bed my mind will start
racing around. My mind says " you are so tired but you really should be intimate
with your husband". Then I go to bed feeling guilty and my husband goes to bed
feeling unsatisfied sexually. So the power of scheduling sex is that I know on
Monday after the children go to bed we have it planned to be sexual. On Tuesday
after the children go to bed I can crawl into our bed and fall asleep peacefully
with no guilt attached. The days that sex is scheduled you can think about the
evening you and your man will create. You can make sure that the sheets are
changed, you are wearing something sexy and you can get your mind thinking about
all the fun and sexual things you will be experiencing later this evening.
Scheduled sex is of great value in a marriage. When sex has become a scheduled
occurrence then the emotion and the sexually energy will continue to build and
build. You can still have amazing sex even when it is on the calendar two
to three times a week.
Start scheduling and see what it does for your marriage!