Most of us are Mothers and Fathers and when the kids start bringing home their art
projects and their heart felt notes it is very easy to place these precious
treasures in our bedroom. As women we get to be very conscious of our
surroundings. When there is a Winnie the Pooh picture your son colored, and a
Barbie doll cut out your daughter gave you on your bedroom dresser then it is a
little harder to feel sexually connected. We get to decide that the bedroom is
an adult room. I am not saying there should be explicit photos or items that
your children should not be exposed to. I am saying this should be a space that
creates a feeling of serenity and sexuality. When we step into our bedroom we
want to feel the passion and love that is shared in this space. Our bedroom is
just that...OURS. There are very few things that are just ours so decide that
this is the one room that you get to make sexually stimulating . Here are a few
tips that I have found that create an amazing environment for
1.Take all Mommy and Daddy items out of your
2.Change the sheets often and when you do...visualize
sexual intimacy with your spouse.
3.Create dim lighting , light candles or buy a black
light....lighting can really assist women in feeling more
4.Get something that plays music that makes you feel
5. Diffuse essential oils or light incents...find a
scent that creates a sexy mood
6.Get bedding that sparks a sexual feeling....if
flowers are on your bed and flowers do not make you feel sexy ...then change
your choice of bedding.
7.Clutter makes us feel pressure....so get rid of any
and all clutter in your room.
8.Have fun creating the environment where you and
your spouse are going to connect on a very intimate ,very erotic
Sex is so amazing and when we take pride in the environment that we are exchanging
sexual energy and sexual favors then we can feel very sexy and very safe doing so.