Chapter 2....Desires of 31 flavors

This section of my website is dedicated to woman who want to understand why their man or men in general find porn so enticing. This is just my feelings on the subject matter. My goal is to assist women in not being so emotionally attached when it comes to their man watching porn. I know not all men watch porn but the majority of them do, either openly or secretly. Porn is here to stay and it is only becoming more and more dominant in our virtual world. I feel like we should understand men more when it comes to porn and not place so much shame, guilt and judgment on them.







Men are sexually driven, visually stimulated and have many sexual thoughts a day. Their penis is running the thought process off and on all throughout the day.

Men are amazing and absolutely wonderful! I am not saying that men are sexually demented. I am saying that understanding how much men relate to themselves through sexual satisfaction is something every woman deserve to know more about.

Lets take a moment and see if we can ever recall these words coming out of a mans mouth...

1. " I wish I was not having so much sex".

2. " Why does my wife want to suck my dick all the time...she is so needy".

3. " I am just so tired of feeling like a piece of meat".




Men love sex. They thrive with sexual desire. They dream of sex and they would love to have a harem of women just waiting and wanting to please their every sexual need. So does this desire and drive just vanish the moment the words " I DO" come out of their mouth? SORRY LADIES...the drive and desire are still there. Now that sex become predictable or the lack of sex comes predictable, the desire and drive kick up a few notches. So guess where Mr. Penis goes to satisfy his sexual urges and fantasies...The INTERNET!  Here is something to remember...IF YOU CAN THINK OF IT, THERE IS PORN OF IT! I read in a book once that you can type into a search engine, person having sex with a goat that is in fire and the computer will come back and ask you to specify what type of goat!

The internet is like baskin robins but instead of 31 flavors there are thousands of flavors all allowing men to express their sexual desire in the comfort of their home or office( hiding it from the wife). The internet may have been created for porn. Here are some statistics from dailyinfographic.com

1. 12% of websites are pornographic...that is 24,644,172

2.Every second $3,075.64 spent on porn and there are 28,258 people viewing porn...every second

3.40 million Americans are regular visitors to porn sites.

4. In the U.S. internet porn pulls in $2.84 billion dollars a year and world wide is $4.92 Billion. U.S. is over half!

5.25 billion emails per day are pornographic. That 8% of all emails

6. 25% of all search engine requests are pornographic related, that's 68 million a day

7. 35% of all internet downloads are pornographic

8. Utah has the nations highest online porn subscription rate per thousand home broad band users.

9. 20 % of men admit to watching porn online at work and 13% of women

10. The average porn site visit last 6 minutes and 29 seconds

11. Least popular day of the year for watching porn is Thanksgiving

12. Most popular day of the week for watching porn is Sunday




The internet is a blank canvas just waiting to please a mans desires. Anything he wants he can experience in virtual reality. He just has to tell the computer what he wants and desires and then whola...he has it brought to him on a silver platter with many other side options to choose from. The best part is most men will not experience shame, guilt or judgment. Sexually this is a mans dream come true and many women would love this sexual freedom as well. No judgment, just sexual expression.

Remember your man loves you with all his heart his desire to look at porn has nothing to do with his love for you. Take a deep breath and love your man unconditionally with all your heart!

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