Take the Lead

Take the Lead in the Bedroom....Tease and enjoy your man with your seductiveness










Make a decision to try something new in the bedroom. We have to leave our comfort zone . Life can becoming boring and mundane. Don't allow the bedroom to remain the same day in and day out. Lets challenge ourselves to get brave and embrace our inner sexual vixen. Step out and create new excitement in the bedroom. Here are a couple of ways that you can create new sexual excitement while also connecting physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally and of course sexually.  Try at least one and see how you feel afterwards.

1. Take the lead in the bedroom. Express your desire for your man.( Ask your man to get in the shower and wash everything, you mean everything ,with soap! Don't be shy ) Slowly start caressing and softly kissing him. Start with his shoulders, then his biceps, to his forearms and then ever so gently take his fingers and do with them what you wish, either kiss, lick or nibble. Then move over to his chest caressing and enjoying this man that you love so much. Then move down his stomach kissing and nibbling the sides of his core. Then keep working down. His hips are amazing and they deserve some sensual attention as well. Kiss and nibble his hips. The penis is just calling and begging for you but now is not the time. Move to his inner thigh, this is such a sensitive spot, lightly kiss and caress this area. Then run your nails or fingertips down his legs to the ankle. Kiss and nibble his ankle, then move to the ever most erogenous foot. The feet are know for their ability to create sexual arousal. Kiss, nibble and caress his feet. Softly bite up the arch and seductively suck on his toes. Now , remember, this is something new. Some of this may sound a bit crazy but you never know if you or your man likes something until you try it. Now to the main course. The meal that your man has been wanting you to devour since you started this five course experiment. His penis. Kiss, caress, lick, suck whatever you feel comfortable doing to his manhood then try it. Make sure your man can see this. Do not lay your head on his stomach  so your head is blocking his wonderful view. He longs to see you enjoying his penis as much as he enjoys it. After 5-10 minutes of this delicious meal then move to the dessert...your vagina!. Your man will feel like a kid on Christmas morning and he will be wanting you so badly. You will have experienced something new and I am sure you will have found something new to turn you on. Your ability to make your man excited and devour him in a seductive, sexual way brings sexual pleasures to both of you. Every man wants to feel wanted and desired and this is an amazing way to express your wanting as well as an amazing way to turn your own sexual energy up and on! Personally I feel more excited and turned on when I am giving my hubby intense sexual pleasure! Try this one and see how you both feel. Communication afterwards is extremely important.  Your man may not like the sides of his stomach touched or his toes licked or he may have found it so extremely sexually satisfying but you will never know if you don't communicate effectively.
2. Give your man an erotic massage. Express your desire for your man. ( Ask you man to get in the shower and wash everything, you mean everything, with soap ! Don't be shy!) Find a piece of sexy lingerie and some seductive heels, put them on,  and have your man lay face down on the bed. Get some oil, I prefer coconut oil, you want an oil that is going to taste okay as you will be kissing his body while you are massaging and baby oil does not taste good, believe me! So put on some sensual music and begin massaging your mans back. Start slowly and softly and have the intent of helping him relax. Do this for about 5-10 minutes, focusing on his back, neck and shoulders.  While you are massaging, lean over and kiss his neck, Kiss his shoulders and kiss his lower back. Enjoy this mans body that you love so very much. Move down to his butt, thighs, calves and feet. Massage them for about 5 minutes and make sure you throw in many soft kisses to the inner thigh as well as the bottoms of his feet. Spending some time serving your man in a seductive, sensual, sexual way is so rewarding. You will feel the sexual energy building up inside of your own self. Think loving, excited, passionate, sexual thoughts while doing this and I promise you will be incorporating the massage into your bedroom on a consistent basis.

There are so many things you can try but these two are easy, safe and an effective way to place your self in control and show your hubby the sensual, sexual, seductive side of yourself. Expressing your desire for him will in turn activate his desire to express his wanting for you. You will find yourself getting more kisses just because, more gentle caresses just because and more looks of desire and this will make you feel that sexual feeling that you have been longing for!!

Take the Lead...you and your man will be glad you did!

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