I wanted to share my experience of asking my husband if he would like to receive during the OM session. Orgasmic meditation is based around the woman getting stroked and the man being the one that strokes, but on day 20 I felt called to ask my husband if he would like to receive during this orgasmic meditation session.
This was such a beautiful experience!
He laid down on his back undressed from the waist down. I remained fully clothed. I applied some lube and started stroking extremely light strokes. I focused on the top inch of the penis as this is the area with the most sensation. I gently stroked his penis for 15 minutes. Then the timer went off and we do a grounding step to ground the energy that is felt during the practice. We then share what we felt during the session and then he got dressed.
Here is what was so amazing about this practice for men receiving and woman giving
- I got to gently touch his penis with no expectations of anything happening
- I touched his penis so softly, a light feather stroke just for him to feel sensation
- I was able to really look at his cock. I was connected and focused
- He was able to just lay back and receive with no expectations. He just received 15 minutes of focused attention from me. I was focused on his manhood. Caressing it, loving it, touching it and stroking it.
- I enjoyed giving as much as I enjoy receiving
- I felt this energy that he deserves to be seen and loved just as much as I do. Sometimes we can easily see the man without seeing the whole man.
- I loved giving him something no one else has ever given him. A soft stroke for 15 minutes that is just for him to feel sensual sensations.
- I love the vulnerability we both share in this orgasmic meditation space
- I love that I see his penis in all of his glory. Soft, hard, big, small, fully erect or partially erect. It is truly inspiring in all of its forms.
Start today. I promise you wont regret it.