Where are your sexual thoughts?

I want you to take a minute and really think about the thoughts you have when it comes to having sex and being sexual with your spouse.  I am sure we have all heard that our thoughts create our reality. This goes for the thoughts we have about sex as well. When we allow our minds to start thinking thoughts that are negative about our sexual relationship these thought then turn into our sexual reality. Here are some thoughts that may be causing a sexual disconnect in and out of the bedroom.
  

• I do not enjoy sex
• I feel uncomfortable naked
• I guess tonight I will have sex with my husband so he is happy
• Sex is not enjoyable
• Sex is to much work
• It takes to long for me to have an orgasm
• Sex just makes me feel worse about myself

The above example is just a few thoughts that could be creating sexual unhappiness. Our thoughts are the most powerful tool we can use to feel excited about connecting with our spouse sexually. When we use this powerful tool with positive thoughts our sexual energy will come alive and start to sparkle. We will want to increase that sparkle so it soon becomes a beacon of sexual light that we never want to lose sight of again. Sex is passionate, romantic, hot, erotic, sensual and exciting. Sex is a playground that can create laughter, love and happiness. Sex is a positive action that deserves nothing but positive thought. Know that sex is your divine right to receive pleasure as well as give pleasure. Marriage is an amazing union, a union that thrives when sex is involved. Friendship is amazing and I am a advocate of being best friends with your spouse but being the greatest of lovers is also high on my list. I love feeling sexually confident. My spouse loves it when I am feeling sexually confident. My thoughts create this confidence. My thoughts are sex positive and the days that I have thoughts creep in that are sex negative, I remind myself of my sexual goals. My desire to have a happy, fulfilling sexual relationship with my spouse.

Start shifting your sexual thoughts. Become Sex Positive in your everyday attitude with your spouse.  

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