I want you to take a minute and really think about the thoughts you have when it comes to having sex and being sexual with your spouse. I am sure we have all heard that our thoughts create our reality. This goes for the thoughts we have about sex as well. When we allow our minds to start thinking thoughts that are negative about our sexual relationship these thought then turn into our sexual reality. Here are some thoughts that may be causing a sexual disconnect in and out of the bedroom.
- I do not enjoy sex
- I feel uncomfortable naked
- I guess tonight I will have sex with my husband so he is happy
- Sex is not enjoyable
- Sex is to much work
- It takes to long for me to have an orgasm
- Sex just makes me feel worse about myself
Start shifting your sexual thoughts. Become Sex Positive in your everyday attitude with your spouse.