It is truly amazing to me how much emotional attachment I can have when it comes to pictures like these. There are certain days that I think all the pictures are amazing and I can find beauty in every single one of them. Then there are days that I feel so insecure that some of these pictures create a huge emotional pit of despair, guilt , shame and sadness. The expression of human sexual desire is natural and should never create an emotion of negativity....UNLESS I have created a negative belief and then this belief gets activated when seeing certain images. WOW...I am confident, open and very comfortable with my sexual self and still I carry beliefs around that have shame, guilt and sadness attached to them. As a child I was not taught about sex so I learned many things from my 6...yes 6 older brothers. This is one of the reasons I am so open about sex. You can image the things I have heard and the images I have seen. My brothers were so comfortable and open with their sexual wants and desires. Always making little comments and talking openly with one another. So here I learned openness, acceptance and felt like my life as a girl would be just as open, boy was I mistaken. I would be out with my friends and state something very sexual and there was huge amounts of judgment and guilt attached to my statement. I was shocked that girls did not express themselves like the boys did. I then learned you are considered a "BAD GIRL" if you are a sexual girl. I have really worked through all these beliefs that got downloaded when it comes to sex but there are times that they all come back strong and hard and then I have to ask myself " Why am I attaching so much shame, guilt and judgment when it comes to my sexual self?" I really recommend you take a moment and notice the feelings, thoughts and judgments that come up when you watch this slide show and ask yourself the same thing! We deserve to be comfortable with our sexuality and releasing shame, guilt and judgment! It is the only way we will become open and secure! Release negative beliefs about sex and continue to build a strong Sex positive belief!
Press the play button and notice your emotions. I would also suggest to watch this with your spouse as well. Notice the different emotions that come up when you are alone versus the emotions that come up when you are watching this with your hubby!
Then take some time and become aware of why you are feeling each emotion you felt and work through shifting these emotions if they are not serving you!
My name is Cameo .I have been married for 19 years and with my husband for 20.5 years. I know that the sexual connection in a marriage can create strength and happiness and I also know the lack of a sexual connection can leave you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Lets get real open and become sexually satisfied in our marriages!