We have all heard that changing our daily routine or trying something new is
so great for our mind, bodies and souls. This is true for sex as well. If we are
so conditioned that sex can only take place after we have taken off our makeup ,
brushed our teeth, washed our face and put on our night gown then this habit is
one that deserves to be broken. Do something out of the ordinary. Buy yourself a
really spicy dress and meet your husband at the door for an intimate candle
light dinner or put on some sensual music and do a small strip tease for him.
You will get butterflies in your stomach again because you are doing something
new and daring and your husbands response will be amazing and inspiring. We
deserve to get out of our comfort zone at times to create a new spark. I am not
saying that you have to do something so crazy like have sex in the grocery store
bathroom ( although this can be fun), I am saying to do something that you have
always wanted to do when it comes to your sexuality. Take a chance and see how
you feel. We may feel like there is no way that I can do something like that but
when you try it you may find that you feel sexually empowered and that you can’t
wait to try something else new and exciting. Sex is a playground . When we went
out to recess we did not see the Jungle Jim, swing sets, monkey bars and balance
beam and make a decision to only swing and never, ever try the other three. Sex
is fun, amazing, exploratory, beautiful and sensual. Decide today to do
something courageous when it comes to your sexual connection with your husband.
Sex may be fun and playful today and tomorrow sex may be sensual and spiritual.
Both of these have a place in marriage and both are perfect